Do girls care about the job I do????

thats something i would like to know as im still single, and iam the chef a year lol, the region i live, restaurants are popular , everyone in in the restaurant industry ,woman see me ,they ask me what i do for a living i tell them, they always say, oh ok, an theyre interest fades, i just love cooking for the city man i dont know why, i like poeple walking in getting excited with the menu i love the compliments i get an the satisfied smiles they have when they leave, i had careers that made me more money but money doesnt excite me, i use to be a forrest fire fighter fun as hell but i eventually stopped, i always landed great jobs since grade nine, but i learnt its not all about the hard hustle its the smart hustle, i got one foot in the resturant industry one foot in the stock market, i always drive used cheaper priced cars, i live in basement suites an apartments, i get my clothes from thrift shops so you know woman walk right through me,

 

Simple answer: Girls like fun guys, (don't mistake for fungi) now what do I mean by that? If you work a killer job but make it clear you hate it your attraction level is going to drop, if you work a more modest job but have the time of your life woman will naturally gravitate. Just enjoy whatever you do and they will too, remember women are sensitive to emotions more than pure rational logic. As long as you make them feel special and have a great time I don't think they really care. And remember your purpose becomes before women, don't change yourself for someone else, be the person you want to be

 

Nothing bewildering here. Dude has game and got a hot chick overlooking his shortcomings. Hopefully the OP learns something from this. Thinking "will girls still like me because of my job" or worrying about it is dumb cause there will always be dudes richer and more handsome than you. Improve your game and it wont mater.

 

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I’m only 21 and I only do this job for the money[/QUOTE]

 

Game might help you land a woman, but if that's all you've got then don't expect to keep her for long.

 

Uhm yes and no, if it's hard but you earn good money. I can't see why they should conplaim about your job. But if you work as a pornstar. Ermm, you earn good money and you got a good rank, i would doubt a girl would allow that for her boyfriend.

 

OP clearly stated he had a job. If a woman is only interested in you for the resources she can get from you why would you want to keep her anyway?

 

Yes I know. I was just making the point that having a job and being able to pay your own way is what most women would expect when choosing a partner. I'm not talking about gold diggers here.

 

Some.
But at least you have a job.

 

Nerds that aim low and marry ugly chicks.

 

ugly chicks??? thats the pmo addiction talking buddy,its ok the healing takes time

 

Wtf are talking about. Ugly girls definitely exist. I could not masturbate for a hundred years and Leslie Jones will still be ugly as fuck "buddy".

 

let it out man let those pmo demons out, i feel them reaching the surface,its not you whose angry its those angry demons

 

Okay dude. Just be condescending instead of providing an actual argument. Maybe in 5 days when my streak is as high as yours I wont find ugly girls ugly anymore.
I doubt it though. If anything my standards go up when abstaining from pmo.

 

lolwat

Do you genuinely find every woman physically attractive enough to fuck/date/marry?

 

In my experience if she is a solid woman character wise, it won't matter unless you happen to be a hooker or something deplorable (drug dealer maybe?). As long as you can take care of her and any potential children, and you are happy where you are at, she will be good.
Some advice, you wanna be a fireman, and you are young enough to start it. GO FOR IT DO IT!

 

I don't think it matters, what is most important is that you do work, you have a value in society ie: you contribute. Some people will only date within the realms of what they aspire to, for example a high flying lawyer or doctor might not date a warehouse worker or a labourer but it's not impossible just unlikely, what matters most is who the person is and how they make each other feel.

If someone loves you then they will support you whether you are at the top of your career, just starting or have fallen back a few notches. At 21 you shouldn't be concerned about what people think of your job choice, many people don't have the benefit of being in the career they love at 21. I've worked in warehouses before and there are all sorts of people there from school leavers to PHD students who need to earn a bit of exra money. I think you need to see what you want in the next 5 or 10 years, where do you see yourself and what can you do to get closer to that.

If you have ambition and a path you want to follow i think that's a good thing for a potential partner because it shows them you are thinking about the future

 

My comment was 80% satire. Lol I don't know about his.

I Don't think pmo makes you have higher standards either. Look at Mia Khalifa. One of the most popular porn stars but she's a 6/10

 

The dude clearly stated he has a job so obviously he can pay his own way.

 

I wasn't referring to the OP in my second post. We're not on the same page here. I'm out.