masturbation without porn is normal if done in controlled environment

I don't think too much sex with your wife isn't the same as too much masturbation.
Having sex with wife is mutual and that's healthy. I try to get my mind off of my lustful feelings to prevent masturbation.

 

Thanks. I've been having too much sex with my GF and i just wanted to be sure that excessive sex is not unhealthy. I was deciding on catching a break with her from having sex but if it doesn't have any negative affects on your penis like masturbation then that's fine. I don't want a numb dick and lose sensitivity.

 

The thing with real sex it a genital to genital action unless there isn't enough natural lube just have her spit on it or something.

 

It is possible to go long term cause I've done it for almost 5 yrs. We have to refrain our mind to refrain masturbation. Try running,working out ,go for a walk,.

 

"Controlled environment" an hour later:

 

If you’re rebooting to cure pied stop MO completely.

Excerise some self control

 

Lmao

 

I'm also experimenting with this - i did 5 months hard mode except for one woman, and now I've chosen to go back to masturbating to just touch. I try not to fantasize too much. It seems to be working so far but I'm very conscious of that effect - forgot what it's called - where you get increased urges after. I still get urges to watch porn when I'm hungover but I don't actually think its urges to watch porn, I think it's just general horniness.

But yeah feels good and I think if you do it non-compulsively and understand everything then it's all good. Think it might just be one of those "too much of a good thing" situations, idk. Also holy shit I have so much sensation now it's ridiculous, I would seriously say it's twice as good now.

 

RIP Harambe

 

I agree with you very much. I've personally been doing Easy Mode and have found it quite successful personally. When I M, I don't fantasize or think of P and never ever watch P (I never plan to for the rest of my life). I M around 1-2x every 1-2 weeks, I see nothing wrong with it and in fact it helps me relax and not think about P or wanting to see it. In the beginning though, it did trigger P, but after some time and when I felt it was the right time, I switched to easy mode. Sex life has been wonderful and much better than before. Also it helps alleviate blue balls. I don't recommend it for everyone, since for most people I can see that it leads them back to P. For me, I felt like I didn't know I was a PA until learning about it and it was easy for me to understand I had a P problem and I just knew that P was not for me, never again.

 

that is probably true...but it DOESN'T apply to us (atleast me)..
I am an addict! My brain has associated fapping with PMO. I tried it once or twice...immediately I feel the surge in my brain to PMO! Just MO ing isnt enough!...so those are my thoughts.

 

You guys are making excuses!

I've quit both porn and masturbation. I have no desire to go back.

There are so many real women willing to have sex, esp these days. Why not save your sexual energy for a real woman?

You're rationalizing masturbating on an anti-masturbation/anti-pornography website.......

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This is not an anti-masturbation website. It's called EASY MODE, please stop spreading propaganda!

 

Fap = masturbation. No = without.
NoFap = without masturbation

Easy mode is sissy mode. Either you're getting real women or you're jacking off to porn.

Masturbating without porn is a slippery slope back to porn. Again, I ask, why not save your sexual energy for a real woman? You know how much she'd like a full man with a full sex drive? She'd love it so much she couldn't get enough of you, lol wouldn't let you get out the bed to go to work haha.

Instead you all are posting post in the loneliness section of this website complaining on why you don't have a girlfriend? It's because you are still masturbating!

 

having someone give you a release is still way further then just yourself

 

You can do that for yourself, but please don't lecture other people on what they have to do.

Also please stop using terms like "sissy".

There are many reasons why people masturbate. One of them is that not everybody is having an easy time finding a sexual partner.

 

Don't deceive yourself.