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One hotel room , 12 people , need advice

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by TommyStops, Jan 4, 2019.

  1. Jan 4, 2019 #1
    TommyStops

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    (My first language isn't English excuse me if there are any errors and sorry for the wall of text, I would apreciate if you read it and help me) Hi guys I need your advice for future dates and the actual problem. You see I did no nut november and it helped me like I think I became a little more confident and got more emotions , little things made me happier, before I would just look on the ground while walking to school but nofap gave me energy somehow , like I observed more things around me. For example one morning I was very happy and my day got better just seeing an older brother going with his little brother to the kindergarten.
    Now let's get into the problem , in november I started debating amd I think nofap helped me a lot because I'm shy and all that stuff or at least I was and I found that it is actually very easy to talk in front of people , have a conversation with a girl, etc. Now I'm going to a competition in other town next weekendy, you know how it is , we are 12 people in total , all teenagers , like 5 girls , 2 nights , you understand the idea. I want to make a good impression and you know don't get my pepee hard lol. In the first place I just did a PMO and I want to do a NoFap week but idk if I should go like this or masturbate before leaving so I don't get horny.
    If you could help me with some advices it would be awesome , thanks (btw I'm 15, never had a gf, pretty much no life)
     
    TommyStops, Jan 4, 2019
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  2. Jan 4, 2019 #2
    Pinetree

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    If you do that, who knows, maybe you'll get the chaser effect ... You can tell better how your body works.

    Put some effort into your choice of clothes, meaning pants that don't show through.
     
    Pinetree, Jan 4, 2019
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  3. Jan 4, 2019 #3
    CTRL + DEL

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    Just wear underwear instead of boxers.
    Worst case scenario, bring tape.

    This is normal for a 15 year old, don't worry :D
    Kiss a girl if she makes moves on you but hold back on the sex. Enjoy the moment but be responsible.

    Good job on completing no nut November btw ^^
     
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  4. Jan 4, 2019 #4
    TommyStops

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    First , thanks , I was motivated to do nnn because of this comunity where I learned the bad effects of PMO and read succes stories.

    Uhm , what do you mean by underwear instead of boxers ? I thought boxers were included in men underwear , and no I won't tape my thing I prefer to get a boner.
    Btw do you think I'll have problems with girls and my sexual life in the future because I have phimosis ?
     
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  5. Jan 4, 2019 #5
    CTRL + DEL

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    Boxer briefs tend to be a bit more baggy and allow more room for movement because they extend to the upper thighs as well.
    By underwear, I was specifically referring to briefs, which tend to be more tight around your junk.

    That was a joke XD

    First of all, it is far too early for you to consider that. You're 15 so don't worry about that.
    Secondly, phimosis usually fixes itself by the age of 18 so I think it's a problem that fixes itself at just the right time.

    And yes. It will affect the quality of sex.
     
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  6. Jan 4, 2019 #6
    immadothis

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    deal with it , get used to hornyness, even if your 80 your going to be horny, even the last seconds of death you be horny, there ain't a way around it, if you watched porn you already failed but then you can start again, goodluck
     
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  7. Jan 4, 2019 #7
    TommyStops

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    Idk , it is pretty bad , like when I'm hard I can only see a little of the tip and the skin is red , anyway thanks for advices.
    Is there any subforum I can ask for help about it , like I know there are some exercises to do on the foreskin to heal it, maybe there is someone who did it.
     
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  8. Jan 25, 2019 #8
    The Wrestler

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    Focus on the people and having fun, that should help.
    If you do get an erection while people are around, flex the big muscles in your body: your bum, your legs, and your abs - this draws blood away from your penis. If you can catch a moment alone, do a few squats and the erection should go down.
     
    The Wrestler, Jan 25, 2019
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  9. Jan 25, 2019 #9
    The Wrestler

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    Wikipedia says 90% of cases of phimosis clear up after the age of 16, so you still have a year for your body to sort itself out. If it doesn't, talk to a doctor as a simple steroid cream can help. Everyone's penis is different, and they all take their time developing.
     
    The Wrestler, Jan 25, 2019
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