Why a woman approached me for the first time in my life.

Envoy-ofthe-End · Jan 3, 2019

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This has to be one of the most interesting stories I've read on nofap. The fact that she stated she felt some sort of energy in you is stunning.
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Exactly, she wasn't attracted physically but the energy he emits. I find this really interesting because I honestly cannot fathom that if I manage to get girls to approach me all the time even though I might have fapped the day before 5 times, imagine having a powerful aura about you. I'm really excited for my NoFap journey.

Likableyoungchap12 · Jan 4, 2019

i love your story !!!!!!

ClaritySeeker · Jan 4, 2019

iaj said: ↑

Women have approached me before, but this was different. I'm certain that this particular type of scenario was the first time it's happened to me. It was a touching and memorable moment which I mostly credit to NoFap.

I was out at a restaurant with a friend of mine and one of his friends. As we entered the restaurant I noticed a woman look at me with wonder. I didn't think much of it. She was sitting alone so I assumed her company (husband or partner) was in the bathroom or something. So I continued walking towards our table in the corner of the restaurant and enjoyed my time with the two friends.

Almost halfway through our meal the lady approached our table with a broken voice and foreign accent. She apologised for her husky tone and said that she just wanted to give me "this" (as she handed me a folded up note). I asked: "Who is this from?" And she replied: "Me." I was stunned. Before I could even register what had just happened, she walked away. She was alone in the end. Both friends looked at me with surprise too. In fact, my friend is more of a ladies man than me, so he was more shocked because a woman approached me instead of him.

When I opened the note it read:
My name is _____ and I fly home in 2 days. It would be great to meet you for a coffee (followed by a phone number).

Did I contact her? You bet your fapping ass I did! She was only here for 2 days, so time was of the essence. Later that night we met at midnight and hung out. She was a classy lady from Europe and when I asked her why she approached me, she said: "There was this energy about you..."

That has to be the best compliment I've received. Ironically, my friend's friend who was present at dinner predicted exactly that- she said: "You must have an ora about you this evening for her to approach you."

I am so much more grounded, calm and confident since managing my addictive behaviour. She sensed this. Prior to NoFap, I must've been airy, nervous and timid.

I'm now 4 months fap-free and 2 months porn-free. I've developed such resilience that I even delete all sexual content I receive on whatsapp from friends to resist urges and relapses. This strength and self-control is an attractive quality.

It's inevitable; the moment you stop clicking on the digital men and women on your screen, you eventually start clocking onto the physical men and women in real life. Or in this case, they clock onto you.
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What a great and happy story. Please let us know the outcome

Lxn · Jan 4, 2019

Amazing story bro

Khufu · Jan 4, 2019

i actually dont know how to ask a someone out on a date, do you just casually ask if they want to go out or , if they wanna see a movie,theres a coworker i just cant keep my mind off, she been working with us for a year i think an im still figuring out how to talk to her, i think i figured it out a little i dont know, i want to ask her out so bad but i dont know, no compredi

Discoverr · Jan 5, 2019

Its great experience. Thanks for sharing. Another booster.

iaj · Jan 5, 2019

LostCloud said: ↑

i actually dont know how to ask a someone out on a date, do you just casually ask if they want to go out or , if they wanna see a movie,theres a coworker i just cant keep my mind off, she been working with us for a year i think an im still figuring out how to talk to her, i think i figured it out a little i dont know, i want to ask her out so bad but i dont know, no compredi
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This is the complete opposite of this thread. There are so many ways to ask someone out. I think the key is not to overthink it (which is difficult when you really like someone). You could either read “The Game” and try using one of the old charming tactics in there. Or just start talking to her and find out what she likes. If in conversation she mentions that she likes mini golf for example, you could ask her if she wants to play you at golf? Then set a date/time etc. Good luck

iaj · Jan 5, 2019

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What a great and happy story. Please let us know the outcome
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Thank you... After our midnight rendezvous (where we went for a walk and had a night cap), we went our separate ways. Then we tried to meet up within the next couple of days but it didn’t happen. So we’re staying in touch and she might return in March. Either way, I appreciate it for what it was- even if nothing further comes of it.

iaj · Jan 5, 2019

Envoy-ofthe-End said: ↑

Exactly, she wasn't attracted physically but the energy he emits. I find this really interesting because I honestly cannot fathom that if I manage to get girls to approach me all the time even though I might have fapped the day before 5 times, imagine having a powerful aura about you. I'm really excited for my NoFap journey.
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Thanks for reminding me how to spell aura! (He quickly edits his post). I mostly credit NoFap for this event. But there are also other techniques I try and practise to keep myself cool and calm. Don’t solely rely on NoFap alone, other things can help with the art of self-control.

CosmoRedshift · Jan 5, 2019

#inspiration -- Thanks for sharing. We all want that aura, that mist. Stories like this help keep me going!

lipfaster · Jan 5, 2019

Amazing Story!
Congrats!

Deleted Account · Jan 5, 2019

Congratulations! I think when we stop PM then there could be some change in the energy in our bodies and minds which make people get attracted to us - just a hypothesis.

Asgardian36 · Jan 5, 2019

iaj said: ↑

Women have approached me before, but this was different. I'm certain that this particular type of scenario was the first time it's happened to me. It was a touching and memorable moment which I mostly credit to NoFap.

I was out at a restaurant with a friend of mine and one of his friends. As we entered the restaurant I noticed a woman look at me with wonder. I didn't think much of it. She was sitting alone so I assumed her company (husband or partner) was in the bathroom or something. So I continued walking towards our table in the corner of the restaurant and enjoyed my time with the two friends.

Almost halfway through our meal the lady approached our table with a broken voice and foreign accent. She apologised for her husky tone and said that she just wanted to give me "this" (as she handed me a folded up note). I asked: "Who is this from?" And she replied: "Me." I was stunned. Before I could even register what had just happened, she walked away. She was alone in the end. Both friends looked at me with surprise too. In fact, my friend is more of a ladies man than me, so he was more shocked because a woman approached me instead of him.

When I opened the note it read:
My name is _____ and I fly home in 2 days. It would be great to meet you for a coffee (followed by a phone number).

Did I contact her? You bet your fapping ass I did! She was only here for 2 days, so time was of the essence. Later that night we met at midnight and hung out. She was a classy lady from Europe and when I asked her why she approached me, she said: "There was this energy about you..."

That has to be the best compliment I've received. Ironically, my friend's friend who was present at dinner predicted exactly that- she said: "You must have an aura about you this evening for her to approach you."

I am so much more grounded, calm and confident since managing my addictive behaviour. She sensed this. Prior to NoFap, I must've been airy, nervous and timid.

I'm now 4 months fap-free and 2 months porn-free. I've developed such resilience that I even delete all sexual content I receive on whatsapp from friends to resist urges and relapses. This strength and self-control is an attractive quality.

It's inevitable; the moment you stop clicking on the digital men and women on your screen, you eventually start clocking onto the physical men and women in real life. Or in this case, they clock onto you.
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Dude I have no idea if thats true or not....but its a awesome fucking story, man! I appreciate it!!!

I wanna read it again and again! I loved it!

I even saved in in a word document! Thanks for posting it, man!

iaj · Jan 5, 2019

Papsy said: ↑

Congratulations! I think when we stop PM then there could be some change in the energy in our bodies and minds which make people get attracted to us - just a hypothesis.
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Definitely. It’s beyond a hypothesis. Habit patterns exist in the subconscious and urges are embeded in your body. Hence you can pick up your addictions (comfort foods, phones, cigarettes etc.) without even realising sometimes. Change your habits; change your mind/body.

iaj · Jan 5, 2019

Chappo030891 said: ↑

Dude I have no idea if thats true or not....but its a awesome fucking story, man! I appreciate it!!!

I wanna read it again and again! I loved it!

I even saved in in a word document! Thanks for posting it, man!
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Wow dude, I’m flattered. I’m glad it helped and I can assure you it’s 100% true. I was tempted to take a picture of the note but then I thought that’d be unclassy. Some moments in life are best kept for yourself to enjoy. Our lives are already too public with social media etc.

Jerome5 · Jan 6, 2019

I want some of that so it inspiremes me to try again. Thanks for the story.

nickfury21 · Jan 6, 2019

iaj said: ↑

Women have approached me before, but this was different. I'm certain that this particular type of scenario was the first time it's happened to me. It was a touching and memorable moment which I mostly credit to NoFap.

I was out at a restaurant with a friend of mine and one of his friends. As we entered the restaurant I noticed a woman look at me with wonder. I didn't think much of it. She was sitting alone so I assumed her company (husband or partner) was in the bathroom or something. So I continued walking towards our table in the corner of the restaurant and enjoyed my time with the two friends.

Almost halfway through our meal the lady approached our table with a broken voice and foreign accent. She apologised for her husky tone and said that she just wanted to give me "this" (as she handed me a folded up note). I asked: "Who is this from?" And she replied: "Me." I was stunned. Before I could even register what had just happened, she walked away. She was alone in the end. Both friends looked at me with surprise too. In fact, my friend is more of a ladies man than me, so he was more shocked because a woman approached me instead of him.

When I opened the note it read:
My name is _____ and I fly home in 2 days. It would be great to meet you for a coffee (followed by a phone number).

Did I contact her? You bet your fapping ass I did! She was only here for 2 days, so time was of the essence. Later that night we met at midnight and hung out. She was a classy lady from Europe and when I asked her why she approached me, she said: "There was this energy about you..."

That has to be the best compliment I've received. Ironically, my friend's friend who was present at dinner predicted exactly that- she said: "You must have an aura about you this evening for her to approach you."

I am so much more grounded, calm and confident since managing my addictive behaviour. She sensed this. Prior to NoFap, I must've been airy, nervous and timid.

I'm now 4 months fap-free and 2 months porn-free. I've developed such resilience that I even delete all sexual content I receive on whatsapp from friends to resist urges and relapses. This strength and self-control is an attractive quality.

It's inevitable; the moment you stop clicking on the digital men and women on your screen, you eventually start clocking onto the physical men and women in real life. Or in this case, they clock onto you.
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Congrats man! thats a sign to keep going

Deleted Account · Jan 6, 2019

Even i have many doubts about this whole aura atraction concept, its interesting to read and im happy for you. Thx for sharing

Asgardian36 · Jan 6, 2019

iaj said: ↑

Wow dude, I’m flattered. I’m glad it helped and I can assure you it’s 100% true. I was tempted to take a picture of the note but then I thought that’d be unclassy. Some moments in life are best kept for yourself to enjoy. Our lives are already too public with social media etc.
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dude....I re-read it again today. There must be some habits that you do which have caused you to be confident...

what were you doing regularly in the last 3-4 months...if you don't mind me asking???

Because what you have now, that's real shit, man!!! Thats supposed to be the default behavior of every man here, strong, confident and free from addictions!!!

Ra's Al Ghul · Jan 6, 2019

Congratulations on the Turbo Chad status.

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