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Just got the problem from a friends perspective.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by CasualMe95, Feb 9, 2015.

  1. Feb 9, 2015 #1
    CasualMe95

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    So I just had a talk with one of my best friends since a long time ago.

    I asked her if she thought I needed a girlfriend because everyone is onto me that I need to get one. And since she knows me better than most I figured, why not ask her.

    She said that no, dont look for one. But open your eyes because you'll probably be more social and not as lonely if you get one. Truth is. I am lonely because I work and exercise so much.
    It kills my social life.

    But then she said that she was tired of guys. "Most of them are so fucking disguisting. Its like they look at us like objects."
    And I was holy shit!

    This is more true than i previously imagined. One of my best friends tells me this problem. Only she ain't got no ground for it. She doesn't know what the problem is. This is insane.
     
    CasualMe95, Feb 9, 2015
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  2. Feb 9, 2015 #2
    NF SINCE BIRTH

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    This is spot on. I think most men today is watching porn and if you step out of it , Girls will notice :)
     
    NF SINCE BIRTH, Feb 9, 2015
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  3. Feb 9, 2015 #3
    CasualMe95

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    Yes. Most definetly they will.
    I got goospumps when my best friends said this problem but she don't know what the source of it is. That really was a wake up call.
     
    CasualMe95, Feb 9, 2015
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  4. Feb 9, 2015 #4
    CJthewise

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    Yes this is true too many men these day watch too much porn and it affects the way the treat and view women, its the same reason why alot of girls are not as attracted to us now a days , we as men should be treating our bodys like kings and the women like our queens but because of porn and the lack of respect the women are being portraied as we seem to just fallow what we see and only want them as objects
    keep your life force in your brother
     
    CJthewise, Feb 9, 2015
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  5. Feb 9, 2015 #5
    CasualMe95

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    Well spoken!
     
    CasualMe95, Feb 9, 2015
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  6. Feb 9, 2015 #6
    mijereah

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    Can you clarify your post? It doesn't make sense. Are you saying that girls naturally flock to guys who don't look at porN?
     
    mijereah, Feb 9, 2015
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  7. Feb 13, 2015 #7
    pistol345

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    Exactly. I think women respond to men who don't act like sex craved animals. If you're trying to hit on a girl at the bar, just play it cool and talk to her like you would talk to some dude. When men are "hooked" on porn and are overly focused on sex, they act weird and appear desperate to women. The trick is to play it cool like you don't care what she thinks, then if/ when you get a girl alone and start getting frisky... you unleash the horny animal and she'll love it. I struck out for 2.5 years before my reboot, then got control of my sex drive / behavior, and banged 4 girls in one summer. Porn is a terrible thing
     
    pistol345, Feb 13, 2015
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