RANT about woman attraction during Nofap

Sorry Fehr but I can't agree with you on this.

Keep in mind that everyone's experience is different, in the same way that everyone's addiction / sexuality / fetish(es) are highly varying concepts.

We cannot make all-inclusive generalisations but we can make probable predictions.

Without getting personal, you may just not be generally good looking for nofap to make much of a difference.
Or you just may not possess the natural personality which will draw women to you.
It could also just be that the women you interact with in your community have a better subset of males from which to pick their partners from.

There are obviously a lot of factors coming into play here and you may just have to come to terms with them one day, should they apply to your person.

As for me, I can definitely vouch for the increased attention, but please understand that - as in all population studies - results are bound to change.

I'm sorry nofap isn't working out for you this way, but as you yourself said:

This is your experience alone.


I urge any new readers to not lose faith until they see the results for themselves

@Analog Guy in a Digital World perhaps you would be better off creating a poll here and letting the results speak for themselves?

 

I absolutely believe the aura is true. When on NoFap, your energy and confidence will increase, for some the change is drastic. People around you can sense it based on your body language, eye contact and attitude. But for people who have started general self improvement in hopes of catching more attention from girls, they might not see any significant change. NoFap might not be enough, there's some other issues that in the first place have caused the mindset that you need to change to gain more attention from girls. When it comes to semen retention, I don't think that is the reason. Men who are in relationships are confident, energetic, happy, and don't act desperate. It's the behavior and confidence that is appealing. A person who has quit masturbation isn't guaranteed to have these features, again there can be other issues to be dealt with. But I strongly believe NoFap will have a positive impact on anyone, just the extent of it will differ for everyone. And I agree that all the self improvement should be done to achieve self respect, inner peace and happiness. A try-hard attitude to make girls like you is pathetic imo, women shouldn't be the main focus and reason for your actions.

 

Its a scientific fact women are attracted to the scent that blue balls give off.
Studies also show that not washing the testies duing nofap the scent increases 4xs and that attracts 4 times the women.
And...i just made all that up. I think the attraction thing is a myth myself. But im certainly open to it if it happens.

 

maybe it has to do with attitude/confidence/ more testosterone gives?

 

it has to do with the increased confidence imo, so while sex with women will boost your confidence (so you will attract more women, it is like the opposite to a vicious cirlce LOL), jerking off to other people doing what you would like to do, will decrease your confidence to the point where you can't even look in the mirror anymore...

 

It's all about how you work on yourself. Anyone who thinks that just by not watching porn and masturbating more women are going to flock to you like a hungry pack of hyenas is sadly mistaken. What I believe people on this site really get mixed up is that porn and masturbation is just part of the problem. It's up to you to figure out the rest.

 

I've been obsessing over Female magnetism over the last weeks because I haven't experienced almost any. In my last streaks I've noticed an animal magnetism that I've never had before going on NoFap. I won't try to explain how it works because I really don't know, all I know is I don't believe is the confidence thing because I've felt anxious as hell and women still show a lot of interest. I don't think is pheromones because how would you know where the scent comes from? I think there is something else there that we are not able to explain yet.

Also, I think is a disservice to just call it "female attraction" since it seems to work on both men and women. Women seem to be sexually attracted and men seem to respect you a lot when on a long streak.

So maybe your streaks are not that long? Are you edging or looking at P-subs? Are you working out, are you reading, are you doing anything for yourself?

 

Nah, simply holding in your semen for a few weeks won't automatically make women sniff around you like parched spaniels. It's all about confidence.

When you submit yourself to NoFap, you're basically letting go of something that you know has been keeping you pinned down in life. And when you feel free, your attitude changes in certain ways. For an example, now you have more time to do other things. You may decide to learn new skills, become more observant when out and about (and you begin to notice real women, which some mistake for being the other way round), you feel more confident and making eye contact with random people on the street doesn't make you want to shrivel up and hide etc. When all of this happens, you naturally begin to build your confidence.

But reports of women running towards people in hordes, trampling over each other in the process is a tad exaggerated. I recently read a spoof report on Reddit that I found hilarious. Basically it went something like this:

"Today I am 3 days without PMO and when I was standing in front of the shop entrance a girl approached me! She told me to get out of the way! Wow I was skeptical of superpowers before but now I have no doubts. Thank you NoFap!"

 

So, if it is depending on wether you read and exercice or not, it can't be a semen retention thing

 

I think attraction consists of many factors
And nofap is one of them
For example if a good looking guy is fapping all day and night ....but stil chances of him attracting others is more.....
For example.....height is not only genetics......it includes excercise diet proper sleep etc
In the same way avoiding pmo gives you confidence......
And you are a good looking guy......I believe doing nofap will help you a lot
And also .....money attracts girls.....
So may be those dudes whom you are talking about......are very rich

 

Lol
this is funny

 

can i add my science here, i have a conclusions its our pheromones that attract the others, more on nofap your pheromones get stronger, an when a guy is with his girlfriend or vice versa theyre pheromones are exchanged an then you have the females pheromones on you an so it signals other woman that this guy is in mate mode an well mate with them,

 

Just saw myself in a mirror. And i have to admit it. I was a little attracted to me.