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Why Do We Straight Guys Whack Off to Videos of Alpha Males Having Sex?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jan 11, 2019.

  1. Gotham Outlaw

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    Porn is watching a woman you're attracted to get fucked by someone else. By watching it you are turning yourself into a cuck.

    The death penalty is vague. How specifically do you think they should die?
     
  2. The men are just props. One site I used to watch referred to them as "stunt cocks".
     
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  3. People who use the words 'alpha male' and 'beta male' are overgrown monkeys.

    But yes, porn is the bane of society.
     
  4. Mattew

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    Always thought that.
     
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  5. I don't think we humans should apply to ourselves terms that we created for wolves, but I usually see that people misinterprets what being an alpha is, because it wouldn't be beung a bully at all, here you have ab alpha dog. The husky is kind of the bully, totally exited, disturbing the peace of the pack, and the hairy german sheperd is the alpha.
     
  6. they act like ass holes to be honest, you can tell the girl is never enjoying it because they are ramming the shit out of her, and not caring about how she feels.
     
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  7. Mattew

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    Totally agree, this Alpha-Beta bullshit is a thing for young kids who read pickup artists shit...
     
  8. ultrafabber

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    Social rankings exist, whether you call it alpha beta omega or something else.

    We are just smarter monkeys and we act like smarter monkeys but fundamentally we're still animals. We have something animals don't have, a high degree of self-awareness, but other than that we function under the same principles and internal rankings.
     
  9. zzz...not all animal groups are organized in the form of hierarchies, not even in primates.

    The south brazilian monkey is a completely egalitarian species, no member has ever been known to participate in a hierarchy:
    https://www.karger.com/Article/Pdf/157242
    "Muriquis (Brachyteles arachnoides) are unusual among polygamous primates in the nonaggressive, egalitarian relationships that exist among group members."

    Many other primates have been known to form egalitarian groups sometimes:
    https://slate.com/technology/2014/0...-in-bonobos-chimps-monkeys-lions-baboons.html

    Female lions have also shown egalitarianism:
    "Egalitarianism in female African lions"
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11474110

    And it's overwhelmingly agreed upon by anthropologists that most human hunter-gatherer groups were mostly or completely power-egalitarian, often without leaders.
     
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  10. ultrafabber

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    These are exceptions or not applicable. Humans, and especially men, are hierarchy- based. It may be uncomfortable but it's how it is. There's even theories on social-anxiety being a manifestation of this ranking system.
     
  11. They are not alpha males just guys whith a fuckton of money and right
    connections to the industry. Mostof them are depressed and on drugs.
    Those big dicks are all pumped full of injections otherwise these dickheads could not even get it up.
    Look up the most succesfull male pornstar on youtube.
     
  12. "These dickheads", that proves you're mad at them. Provided that they have done nothing to you, it can only be jealousy.
     
  13. Except by being part of a abusing industry that ruins lives?
     
  14. IGY

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    Rubbish! o_O Call a spade, a spade. Call a dickhead, a dickhead.
     
  15. overclocked

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    I have never seen them as alphas or anything positive :D in fact, when I grew up, sleeping with different women was an antisocial thing to do. Those who were decent looking but had no job would hang out in clubs and seduce different girls, living a hedonistic life style. It was frowned upon. Being filmed while having sex was for savages, those who have given up on society completely.

    This alpha and cucks thing is something entirely new, probably brought to us by some psyop, but let's not put on our tin foil hats and stay on topic.
    All boys I knew loved and watched P. Many of us were already having sex, so the cuck factor was not there at all.

    At some point one night stands, "complicated" relationships, homosexuality, single motherhood and cheating/ adultery were normalized. Suddenly, claiming to have a large dick was not some goofy joke, but a serious statement meant to increase ones social standing and to get promiscious women excited. Suddenly it was cool to have sex with different girls, bonus points if you have footage. In contrast you are now a loser if you don't have that much sex or - god have mercy with you - no sex at all.

    Glad I don't consume porn anymore. On various message boards I heard that some very toxic forms of femdom and cuck shit are being pushed on the front pages. Miss me with that nonsense :mad:
     
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  16. ultrafabber

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    It's new in that it's becoming popular, but the theme of the successful man many girls desire is not something new and it's a reality. Calling such men alphas is not a stretch at all. In contrast, the men who lack willpower, have a defeatist attitude, are not desired by women are known as betas.

    The cuck is sadly a thing now because cuckolding and swinging/hotwife are becoming part of the culture of this godless society. And the hotwife thing is like cuckolding-lite. CNN pushed cuckolding as something cool. I saw some recent article on TheGuardian or whatever where they were pushing for calling the cuck the "stag" to encourage such a behavior by making it seem it's a courageous and noble thing. What kind of man would can possibly ever accept his wife/gf have sex with another man. It makes me sick just thinking about it.
     
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  17. PathOfReform

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    But that's not the case entirely. You paint it as if that industry is based solely of abusing weaker, more desperate people who are forced into it without having a choice. Many of them are there because they wanted to make some quick cash to pay for college and other stuff, but stayed because they liked it and like the money they're making off of it. Of course, there is abuse in that industry, no doubt about it. But professional actors and actresses are involved with professional production companies. Both performers are professional, there's an organized production team behind them and are paid for doing what they like. I assume they might even have agents. Your traditional, professional porn with professional pornstars is done neatly and legally. There's no coercion, simply professional, paid actors. They do not promote any form of abuse. Was there and is there some form of potential abuse among professional companies and actors? Perhaps, in some cases. But it goes deeper than just coercing a helpless, poor person into doing porn, like what happens mostly in poorer countries.

    The darker parts where the abuse occurs is mostly amateur porn videos and shit made by smaller productions that might abuse a weaker person and coerce them into doing porn.
    I've seen shit like that which obviously involved some parties that didn't want to do it but had to because they had no choice mostly due to poverty, and those were mostly videos from places like Russia and Mexico. This much I know from my experience.
     
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  18. overclocked

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    I agree, a few men attract the majority of women, like movie stars. But they had not "taken away" most betas' prospects of dating just by existing. Women being too picky and hesitant to enter monogamous relationships is also pretty new, or at least more extreme now than before. "Incels" have to deal with it.

    When watching porn, you do have some distance to the actors. They are strangers.
    There must be different levels of cuckdom. Paying taxes is not as cucked as donating to a "twitch girl". Watching P is not as cucked as being cheated on. Being cheated on is not as cucked as being in an open relationship. And so on...
     
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  19. You have a point there some do like it.
    But, alot of them are in fact abused as a child or addicts.
    The porn industry throws people away like yesterdays thrash when there done whith them.
    And leaves them whith an empty soul, STDs. depression and a load of cash.
     
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  20. PathOfReform

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    You're generalizing, again. Nowadays, Porn is much safer. They get tested all the time. As long as the actors bring in cash, they'll have work. They're not tossed around whenever. It's much like an actual acting career - you gross money, you bring asses to the sits, you'll have plenty of job opportunities.

    Not all of them leave with empty souls and depression. You seem to be convinced all of them, or the absolute majroity of them suffer and are abused at the end of the day, which is incorrect, unless you can prove your claims. And prove as in prove to me that most of the professional actors indeed suffer from these things or that most retired porn actors suffer from these things, not show me some sob stories or fucked up shit that happened to a few individuals that we've never heard of or some unfortunate cases of fallen porn actors.
     

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