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So yeah till now i have done a great job at rebooting but I watched Porn now.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by FeelTheThunder, Jan 13, 2019.

  1. FeelTheThunder

    FeelTheThunder Fapstronaut

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    So today I was bored as hell wondering if I can still get an erection or have I turned gay or stuff, so i watched porn without masturbating, does this count as relapse? The moment I closed the tab, my erection also left and I don't think i'll masturbate anytime soon until I reach 90 days. I'm pretty confident I won't masturbate but still I'd wanted to know your opinions. Thank you.
    Edit: I've not got any thoughts to fap after I crossed 30 days mark and I don't even get thoughts to fap right now.
     
  2. Iwannaquitplz

    Iwannaquitplz Fapstronaut

    It's like watching a dirty scene from a movie, there isn't a lot of difference in material if you only watch the dirty scene.
    Why don't we restart our counter every time we see a topless female in a movie?
    We don't restart because we know that females have an effect on us, they arouse us, however we don't need to act on whatever we saw. We have enough control to not start MOing right there.
    As long as you don't watch it again, or start looking for replacements, or MO, then you're fine. Treat this experience as a dirty scene in a movie.
    The thing to take away form this is that you stopped, you didn't loose any progress and so you are still in control of your addiction, thus, I don't believe it to be a relapse... We all get tempted at times, but each temptation isn't a relapse.
     
  3. Abetterbrain

    Abetterbrain Fapstronaut

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    I wouldn’t count it as relapse but just be aware in the future and try not to do it again.
     
  4. The Lone Ranger

    The Lone Ranger Fapstronaut

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    My counter says no P no M. This is also exactly my strive, my limits and my goal. If I intentionally watch P I would reset. If I intentionally M I would reset. Rules couldn’t get any clearer if you ask me. If I’m not strict on myself in this journey I would never be able to reach my goals - I’m clearly an addict. Therefore I do not negotiate with P and M.

    Everyone is here voluntarily, you chose as you wish. Good luck with everything.
     

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