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What to do after 90 day hard mode

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by BumbleTheBee, Jan 13, 2019.

  1. Jan 13, 2019 #1
    BumbleTheBee

    BumbleTheBee Fapstronaut

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    Overview - M24
    On hard mode since 17 Oct 2018
    masturbated once in last week of November but without porn (but if you remove this isolated incident, it's almost 90 days since I started my journey).
    Only had sex once, I think I have PIED and death grip. Had partial erection during intercourse and improper penetration.
    Was not addicted to porn and only watched vanilla porn to masturbate 3-4 times a week.

    Questions -

    1. What to do after 90 days hard mode ? What should be my course of action ?
    2. Can I masturbate once a month after completing 90 days ?
    3. How do I know I've rebooted ?
    4. I've not experienced any superpower yet. Feel very frustrated, angry, irritated since last few weeks, getting mood swings. Feel too much aggression inside me.


    I started getting morning wood shortly after starting hard mode and they are strong. I have no urge to watch porn but do have urges to indulge in sexual acts with girls I keep flirting every now and then.
     
    BumbleTheBee, Jan 13, 2019
    BumbleTheBee, Jan 13, 2019
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  2. Jan 13, 2019 #2
    shen

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    Keep going.
     
    shen, Jan 13, 2019
    shen, Jan 13, 2019
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  3. Jan 13, 2019 #3
    CH3RRY

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    90 days is just a number, it doesn't mean anything. You should continue until your problems are gone, however long that will take. I've noticed that age correlates with how long you have to abstain to see results. People who are in their 50s-60s and older will have to abstain for years to match all the decades of masturbation and porn use. For a teenager, a few months can be enough. But it also depends on how often you did it and how addicted you were. I'd say you've rebooted when you don't feel any need to masturbate or watch porn, your libido is normal/high, you don't have unrealistic images and thoughts in your head that were created by porn, you're calm and only interested in real sexual relationships.
     
    CH3RRY, Jan 13, 2019
    CH3RRY, Jan 13, 2019
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  4. Jan 13, 2019 #4
    oneotwo

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    Dude like say it before its just a num
    But ia ok to fucoa the 90 days and after that put some gain ..mire 90 days
    Im now on 180days..
    Its a life style.. Sometiems u might fall but heep u feet up
     
    oneotwo, Jan 13, 2019
    oneotwo, Jan 13, 2019
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