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Quick! Give me some reasons to never masturbate again!

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Deleted Account, Jan 14, 2019.

  1. Captain Rex reporting. I need some help. I just slipped up yesterday and I feel like shit. It's been my second slip-up so far and I can't afford to go back into the addiction and restart the entire rebooting process all over again. I already know why MO is so harmful to the body, especially when done in a daily basis, which is made even worse with the P word (that's right, it should not be named at all).

    I just need some motivation so that I can hopefully prevent anymore future slip-ups from ever happening again. I just don't want to masturbate ever again for the rest of my life. It's just not worth the pain and suffering your body has to go through afterwards. I'm just about done with this shitty habit. Captain Rex, out.
     
  2. Turtleboi

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    If you feel like becoming an depressed ugly guy, with zero confidence and motivation, unable to get anything done, have a shit ton of health problems and try to hide your PMO habits everyone, go ahead and do all the PMO you want.
     

  3. Well played Turtle!
     

  4. Stop all this "rest of my life" business, for one thing. Just make it through today.

    Don't fantasize. If you find yourself fantasizing, put on some Iron Maiden, go take a walk, go to sleep, or find another distraction.

    That's all you have to do to win this game. Become a master at distracting yourself from temptation.

    Over time, you'l have control over this.
     
  5. Dimmed_haze

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    Every time you're about to slip up. Look the self image you have of yourself in the eye. Ask him if he wants to become what you are now.

    Your future self is reason enough. Strong mind, strong body and sharp eyes. Or prone to quick temptation, no will of his own and a slave to the herd. Choose one.
     
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  6. navaho

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    If you really need others to motivate you so much you might not be in the right headspace to achieve this. If you want real motivation look in the mirror and think about why you’re on this site and why you believe you need to stop. That’s the only motivation you need others can’t help you through this it’s a journey you take alone. All the best player!
     
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  7. Amphibian

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  8. Amphibian

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    Or I don't know... maybe that is a reason for you to jack off.
     
  9. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Girls will almost literally run to you

    They said that days 7 and 8 are the days where the body reach top tier testosterone levels, i recommend you to go out for a walk on that days and see what happens.

    That will be enough to you friend.
     
  10. lamstronger

    lamstronger Fapstronaut

    Your future self will thank you when your having amazing sex with your future wife or gf
     

  11. Then you can pay a five figure bill from the hospital for your new dependent. :)
     
  12. tet2vd

    tet2vd Fapstronaut

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    Well that and PMO and fill in all of the above (Cheers to any GoT fans out here?)
     
  13. ReclaimedLife

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    Higher Sexual drive to talk to regular girls
    Higher sensitivity of your dick
    Less likely to develop or actually able to get rid of ED
    Normal girls are WAY more interesting and enjoyable to be with
    Higher testosterone helps you accomplish your goals in the gym, for work and any other activity you are doing inside or outside the house
     
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  14. ccml

    ccml Fapstronaut

    You are probably seeking for a change, and if you are like me, discomfort about your current life brought you here. You won't know if it works unless you give it a good try.
     
  15. Marik757

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    I like to think to myself: what if I got lucky with an actual random person an hr from now. Would suck to blow your now on PMO and have nothing but steam left for show....
     
  16. Sometimes I fight this battle. I wonder, should I relapse today? Will relapsing on pmo solve anything today?

    The truth is, as anyone who's followed my journal knows, that sometimes I relapsed to escape loneliness.

    But does it work?

    The answer is no. This pain of loneliness is an illusion.

    If I DECIDE to be lonely, then I am.

    But if I DECIDE to be happy, then I am.

    I can feel however I want, at any time, for any reason.

    This is not a democracy. It's a monarchy.

    The same goes for being turned on.

    I could relapse, which is always an option.

    Or, I could read up on how much momentum an airliner has at 37,500 feet.

    If I read that thing for 5-15 minutes, the feeling has passed.

    And so did that airliner....

    Analogous to how powerful my feelings SEEM to be.

    So I'd best take the left seat, and land another non pmo day.
     
  17. HegHeu

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    I once completed a very tough walk saying its just one mile more just one mile more. U want to relapse but your needs are different your goals demand you not to so its just one day more just one day towards the bright future every sec after reboot feels much better than few sec pmo.
     
  18. Infrasapiens

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    You will be able to resist the Order 66 and join the Rebellion if you stop PMO.
     
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  19. Sold.
     
  20. ProtagonistOfMyLife

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    I will tell you exactly the same thing I told another fapstronaut on here:

    Well, going by your first post, you are not being honest with yourself. You are just making convenient excuses like "some people hate men, that means some people hate people like me, which makes me feel bad thus it's okay if I PMO a little."

    Now, don't get me wrong, it's not like I don't understand where you are coming from, but you are, right now, in a place of victimhood. You see yourself as a "victim of politics and society". It doesn't matter if it's actually true or not. It doesn't matter if some people hate you or try to deter you from having a good life. As long as you see yourself as a victim you will hand your fate to other people and can not control your own destiny.
    The first thing you need to do in order to become the man you seemlingy want to become is to take responsibility for your situation.
    It doesn't matter what has happened to you, or where you are from. It doesn't matter why or how. Surely, if there is something deterring you like depression or things along those lines, you need to treat it.
    However, everything else are excuses in order to not get uncomfortable with yourself. You are trying to avoid your pain, which in turn ever increases your pain.
    Think about it like a pair of socks.
    If you wash your socks every week and pick the singles to pairs together you will find the matching socks very quickly.
    However, if you wash your socks only every 6 months, or once a year or even, never until you got 10000 pairs of socks, there's a lot of single socks and it will take you disproportionally longer to find the right ones.
    It's the same for your problems.

    One reason you may feel no motivation to stop PMO is because you haven't suffered enough yet. Some people don't feel to need to change until they are on their breaking point.
    However do you really want to let it come so far?
    Don't you have loved ones? Would you rather PMO and walk around like a shadow of yourself than spend time with your loved ones. Watch other men having sex, like a cuck, wasting all your youth, only to wake up in old age, hating yourself for never having had the courage to face your issues.
    Not picking up your mother's call, who loves you and wants to know how you are, because you have your dick in your hand and are panting like an animal because there's some pictures on your computer screen. Until they day she, and others. you say you love, are gone, and you start wailing in regret because your dick has been stronger than your mind.
    Don't make me laugh.
    Don't make excuses. If you want to fap, then at least admit that you don't really want to change. If you feel no anger for your situation, if you feel no love for the people you say are important to you, then at least be honest.
    Because PMO affects everything. It affects your future job prospects, your wife/girlfriend, your children, your whole personality.
    If you are fine with being a soyboy because you feel 'no motivation', then that's okay. But don't make such laughable excuses like politics and "because feminazis on twitter said mean things about people like me."
    This isn't Disney-Wonderland, this is survival of the fittest, mate. And right now, you are at the bottom of Darwin's food-chain. Just because you feel comfortable, or at least, not so uncomfortable right now, just because you don't see imminent danger, doesn't mean it's not there. The predators have changed, but they are still there. They are homelessness, mental illness, your loved ones going through trouble but you can't help them because your fetishes have escalated to watching guys fcking your ass even though you are hetero and you are too preoccupied with yourself and too ashamed to stand your man and actually get stuff done. Not earning enough money because you don't have the energy to work hard and rather fapped than gained skills that would help your promotions. Becoming fat and getting diabetes because you didn't work out. Being fired from your job because you just couldn't help browsing NSFW stuff. Becoming a rapist or pedophile because normal porn just didn't do it for you anymore and you just couldn't control your ugres. You think this is a joke? Think again. Most sexual assailants have/had porn addiction. Just look at their interviews. Do you want to end up in prison because you sexually assaulted a minor? Because, even if not very likely, it's still a possibe outcome if you have such half-baked resolve.
    It's time to wake up mate. Try to get a grip on reality and a sense of urgency.
    Right now you are in free fall and it's just a matter of time until you hit the ground.

    You are going to fking suffer. Do you hear me? You are going to stop PMOing and feel miserable. Every day you are going to feel bad and feel pain and guilt and everything that comes with it. And you are going to take it like a man. You are going to abandon the things that don't help you in life and actually start respecting yourself and do things, that do help you in life. Because by helping yourself you will, no matter what, in consequence help the people you love. And you are going to find more people you will love. Girls, friends, everything. But as long as you sit in front of your screen fapping to other people having sex you will never meet those people.
    So suffer, suffer for yourself, for your future, and for the people you love. Until the day you have conquered your suffering.
    Pain is fleeting only the pride remains. Or wail in regret when everything is too late.
     

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