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Fantasized other woman

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Arthes, Jan 3, 2019.

  1. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    An other tread by me hope that okay
    Me and my gf are happy together for many years and I have a lot of love to her but I can't stop imagining and fantasizing about me and other women.
    I know it's too much but I'm addicted I like looking at photos and Facebook profiles and just wishing I could be one night with that girl or that.
    I want to say that cheating is not an option and I would never do anything to hurt her.
     
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  2. Rick Seng

    Rick Seng Fapstronaut

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    It happens I guess, male biology is designed to find new mates and different potential sexual partners all the time. Read it somewhere I think. But all the time, its not good :D
     
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  3. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    I'm in your shoes too man. I guess is something natural, we can't fight that.
     
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  4. In my opinion I think you should remove facebook.
    But back to the topic at hand. It is natural to have those feelings, but don't act on them. Observe the thoughts and let them pass.
     
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  5. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    Well some of my friends says it's not normal.
    And I do not understand why when I have amazing gf I am still looking at other girls.
    I hate that I need to "control my self" or something like that I still don't know how to say it well but in the other hand I don't want to do anything to hurt her and I feel that I do not want or need anything else in the world .
     
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  6. I have the same problem. Another reason to hate PMO, smh
     
  7. Will It Work?

    Will It Work? Fapstronaut

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    I have the same problem, and decided to give up porn to see if it makes a difference.

    Has anyone else had this problem and had success reducing these feelings by giving up porn?
     
  8. More Jing

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    funny what you remember ,in a hotel when a stunner walked past ,my work collegue said to me "wonder where the guy who is bored to death with her is" .....Im now in my fifties I have come to the conclusion these feeling never go if you can maybe rember they are totally natural and accept it is what it is ..good luck
     

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