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Please help me choose.. financial-life dilemma...

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Unjustfailure, Jan 14, 2019.

What should I buy with my minimal budget

  1. A laptop for working

    58.3%
  2. A gym membership and fixing my bicycle

    58.3%
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  1. Unjustfailure

    Unjustfailure Fapstronaut

    So this addiction, among others, has transformed me into a very undecisive when I'm confronted with personal choices...
    So I've saved a few bucks and I'm having a dilemma in how to spend this money.
    Since the last years of my life half of my time was wasted fertilizing a phone screen, I barely really worked for money because most of the time I was so numb to have a clear mind losing all sorts of opportunities from personal to business.
    So now with those money I have 2 choices either get a laptop or a full year gym membership and fix my bike.
    With the laptop i could go to cafes or any other public place- to minimize the risk of relapsing (I can 1 to 5 times per day, always while I'm at home) -and actually get some work done and hopefully make some money in the long run so I can live on my own.
    With the gym membership and the bicycle, I could have a lot more movement,potentially less relapses, clear mind but that's only if I can stay somewhere besides home. And of coarse if I do have a clear mind, at least get a any kind of job saving some money and buy the rest.

    It's hard to choose for me because my addiction was an emotional trainwreck for a very very long time. I'm living with my parents and the last decade combined with this addiction I see my home as a life term prison making me more disfunctional the more I stay there.
    I'm beyond my 30s which makes my question even more ridiculous but really sad at the same moment.
    Ultimately I want to be able to travel and change completely environment and simply have a life.

    Even the simplest worries could be a burden when it's about yourself so...
    Your opinion matters to me...
    So what would you recommend me:
    a good laptop?
    Or a gym membership and a bicycle?
     
    Coolyorky likes this.
  2. Coolyorky

    Coolyorky Fapstronaut

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    You need to get back to work mate then you can do all the choices. Running is free for the time being until you get the membership.

    Even though I live in the uk I always say to myself “this is America! Earn more money!!”
     
  3. Unjustfailure

    Unjustfailure Fapstronaut

    I will get a job ether way
    The thing is... Small subtle chooses like in long term can affect our lives significantly..

    Cast a vote people!
     
  4. Unjustfailure

    Unjustfailure Fapstronaut

    Took the bicycle after all...
    And I'll probably getting a job in a free days...
    And laptop in a couple of months
    Better late than never

    The most important thing I don't regret it.
     
  5. LEPAGE

    LEPAGE Fapstronaut

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    Push ups are free.
     
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  6. MarkoSkoric

    MarkoSkoric Fapstronaut

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    Gym membership all the way :)
     

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