20 day challenge [join me]

i relapsed today but i am Determined to Go 20 days with you man!!

 

I'm in

 

I lost track hooked up w a girl on day 14 while aiming for 16+ days I was too tempted. Than had a wet dream on day 10 ish aiming for 16+ again felt so betrayed by mother nature after about a week or so I started feeling good again then it was day 10 ish again had a hot dream bout my neighbor and then started thinking about the dream when I woke up aka fanticysing and after that started feeling bad again and still do and it's been 3 days ugh. I keep finding myself learning something new when I think I know everything. So guess I can't fantizize. I wish this would all end. Day 10 ish fantasized 3 days ago wassup day 20 here I come.

 

I’m in ! Hell I’m even signing up for life ! Fuck PMO, this shit is ruining my life and I don’t wanna do it EVER again !!

 

I will be with you my friend. I realized that PMO is a disgusting piece of shit. You want to have pleausure with PMO or reduce stress with it or whatever but once you are done with this shit you are fckin depressed. So there is more stress and FAR less pleausure in the end. I realized that and now I want to stop it ONCE AND FOR ALL!!!
We can do this,day 1 for me!

 

3 Days and counting.

 

3 days in now and feeling fine so that's good. As I said in my first post it's usually 3-5 days that I relapse so I'm in that area now but feeling good about it.

I was just watching a video by "The Universal Man" on youtube and he's talking about coming to terms that you're done with porn forever and that's been something I've been thinking about. Yes I've tried to give up before but there's always this feeling in the back of my mind like "well, it's not like you'll never look at porn ever again...". But that's exactly what this means. Yes there will be sex scenes in movies and so on but it means never actively seeking out porn again. I remember watching Craig Ferguson in a monologue talking about alcohol addiction and how he will always be an addict and as such still has to mind himself. This is something like 15 years after he quit drinking. That's what I'm accepting now, that I will always have that little demon on my shoulder with porn and I have to be mindful of that.

 

Day 2: Spent the better half of the day without urge. But its really hard to control it in night, especially sitting in front of the laptop and not surfing the PMO (Work hufff). Taking regular breaks in between work to avoid PMO distraction. Keeping my partner near me to check my work

 

Sorry Gents, I'm back to step one but still committed to 20 days free from PMO.

 

I will join too, it is hard to do this alone. please share your activity to make it easier doing something instead watching porn than fapping

 

Come on guys, you can do it! I'm on day 26, but I recommend not to look at it as "I'm not going to watch porn for x amount of days", simply quit porn, for life, make the choice. Are you the guy who watches porn or are you not?
If it is too hard for you, start by MO to the sensation (not fantasies) whenever you feel like relapsing is imminent, but don't watch porn.
It's not something I do, but I know in the long run is a viable option that I might take, I think it might even be good as practice to last longer on sex.

 

Day 4 & 5 will be the hardest. Hope we overcome this hurdle. After day 6 it goes easier.

 

Day 3: I didn't feel any urge throughout the day. Stuffed under book, work and socializing. I feel positive about the day. The only drawback is that I don't get any romantic feeling towards the opposite sex (Includes my partner as well). Seems PMO has done an immense damage in that regard. Might be alright after a few weeks. Fingers crossed.

 

I am in! Day 2 for me, I falied twice in Day 5.

 

Yeah, Day 4 & 5 are cruel. But when you get over them it's starting to get easier.

 

Day 4:
I can feel the intensity of the changes every day. I haven't felt any relapse throughout the day. Once I am out of bed, I have decided not to relapse and motivated myself to concentrate in the task in hand. It really helped, whenever the energy drops I tried taking a break and chatted with my friends.
One habit that helped me to maintain the positivity is regular bed time. For the past one week I have rescheduled my bed time and I have been maintaining till today. It helps me to stay active and positive. A good going so far.