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Anal fixation

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Svabo, Jan 19, 2019.

  1. Svabo

    Svabo Fapstronaut

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    So I've been fapping on porn for my whole life (regularly from my 16th year, now I'm 38). The scenes I've been most fascinated with are anal ones. As time passed by, I've started to watch transwoman/CD/TV porn regularly. I've tried gay also but I just don't get aroused on male appearance, the guy must look like a girl and act like sissy. Also I've been watching "normal" male-female porn but it had to be anal scenes... so problem is that I get aroused by anal sex, vaginal just doesn't do anything to me
    Now when I've been practicing nofap, I've lost urge to watch porn but I still feel strong desire to have anal sex, in my mind it is like pure approval of a woman that she really wants to have wild unburdoned sex and only that kind of sex makes me aroused. With my last GF I've managed little by little to get to she point here I've would stick my thum up her b-hole while we were in doggy position and only then I would become relaxed so much that I could have sex with her vagina and stay normal (hard)
    So now I've been looking for a partner all around and also been looking for CD/TV "girls" so recently I've found one that I really like, and seeing her pictures and thinking of her I get instant boner. I never have that kind of reaction with normal girls...

    MY question is: am I gay? I'm definitely BI. Or is it only anal fixation?
    because I don't want to be gay, it think of having sex with same girl looking gender like something for fun, something temporal, not something that I can see myself practicing in old age
     
  2. nutcase

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    I actually see a lot of similarities I myself and I have read similar stories from other people we all have one thing in common and that’s a long time of porn especially our younger years
     
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  3. Clarke

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    You're prolly a little bit gay
     
  4. i dont think so
     
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  5. Clarke

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    It's pretty obvious mate
     
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  6. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    ???

    Where is the reasoning behind this? What do you have to back this up?
     
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  7. Clarke

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    Did you even read his post? He said that after stopping watching porn all he has urges for is butt holes. Probably not full blown big gay, but definitely a little gay.
     
  8. CTRL + DEL

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    Yes, i read his post.

    What you fail to understand, however, is that he never specified the type of body to which said butthole must be attached.
     
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  9. Clarke

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    You don't have to specify the gender. Choosing an anus over a vagina is kinda gay.
     
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  10. CTRL + DEL

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    "In my opinion" <- important words you should add :)
     
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  11. Clarke

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    It's not an opinion, but if you want me to lie to you because it'll make you feel better I will.
     
  12. CTRL + DEL

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    It is an opinion until and unless you find a factual reference to back it up.
     
  13. Clarke

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    I'm citing the original post in this thread. You need a footnote or something? He said after stopping watching porn he does not get aroused by vaginas but instead is aroused by anuses. All I said was that he was a little bit gay which is absolutely true. He said himself that he is definitely bisexual. I don't know how I can break this down further, but try reading his post again very slowly and try sounding out the big words.
     
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  14. CTRL + DEL

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    Proof? Citation?
     
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  15. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Proof is in the pudding & there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
    Pun might have been intended.

    I'm with @Clarke on this. Do citations make a difference?
     
  16. CTRL + DEL

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    The anus is not exclusive to males...
     
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  17. 0111zerozero11

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    Right, I made it through 1st grade.

    The point is, why would you need anal if there's vagina pretty freaking close by, unless you were gay? Or bi. Or unsure. Whatever. Why?
     
  18. CTRL + DEL

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    Idk neither of them said they had a "vagina pretty freaking close by".

    The OP said he's bi so there's that. He's now proceeding to ask if he's gay, which I don't think is a conclusive label to place solely based on his attraction to anal pleasure.

    This could be a case of porn escalation where his true sexuality has been distorted through severe porn use.

    That's why.
     
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  19. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Circles are for drawing. Thanks anyways
     
  20. CTRL + DEL

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    Glad u see reason
     

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