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Letters to Cake; she's in a crisis

Discussion in 'Significant Other Journals' started by 0111zerozero11, Nov 11, 2018.

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  1. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    You are a fucking joke. You & your multiple personalities need help. I'm not kidding. Get help & LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. You are an addict that apparently did something so horrible 2 years ago, you feared legal trouble & ended up in an inpatient facility. I am a mother who married the wrong person. You and your personalities prey on vulnerable people, especially woman, as anyone can tell by looking through your posts.

    Jesus Christ, something is wrong with you. Seriously, get some fucking help & LEAVE ME ALONE FOR THE LAST TIME, I AM BEGGING YOU.
     
  2. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Hey @Jen8675309 or any other mods, do you mind locking this thread? I'm going to need it for evidence & need everything to remain untouched/unedited.

    Thanks
     
  3. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    SHOCKER!!!! He replied, and NONE of this drama, tension, and frustration is his fault!!! (Nevermind the fact that it started the second he posted here and will pretty much vanish once he's gone!! Its not the ONE person getting on everyone's nerves being told to leave, its EVERYONE ELSE.

    "I think I'm gonna have a heart attack and die from not surprised!"
     
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  4. Whyme18

    Whyme18 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Cake. GhostWriter didn't tell me about any of this. The Black Dog mentioned there were problems with someone and he was wanting to leave the site etc. I found this post by looking at GhostWriter's recent posts. It was me they have been helping, that story is all true about vetting etc. I don't know if you will remember me or not but I know you are one of the people who commented on the post I made about a month ago. I had it up for 4 hours and took it down because I felt attacked and that I wasn't going to get any useful comments. I just don't want you thinking that part of things isn't true because you are clearly distressed about it. My post had included the fact that my boyfriend had raped me (I said forced sex in the post). I knew it was rape and that I was in an abusive relationship. I was coming here to get answers to see if it was possibly porn related. Basically every response told me to move on and that it was rape etc. One person said they understood abusive dynamics but that I needed to get out of the situation. I wasn't told anything I didn't know and didn't get any answers to my questions so I took my post down. The Black Dog messaged me later and we talked for a few weeks. He offered to make another post for me. My bf had agreed to join the site at that point and he is defensive and was talking suicide and also threatens people when he is angry and I didn't want him to come across the post and feel worse about himself if he was indeed trying to get help and I didn't want him attacking anyone on here so that was the reason behind the post on my behalf. The Black Dog told me he was working on a couple things if I could be patient with him, later he told me he had been vetting GhostWriter to make sure he was legit and he had told me he was talking to a woman who he thought could help me but she was going through a lot herself right now. He ended up saying that the woman couldn't help me but connected me with GhostWriter. They have both been really helpful to me particularly GhostWriter who was helping me to understand things and work on boundaries. In the process I have gained the insight and strength to break up with my bf since it is clear he needs serious help and isn't seeking it at this time. I'm sorry you are having additional stress right now but I wanted to clear that up and I know GhostWriter needs to say off of your journal but he was probably defending himself incase other women get scared off from talking to him. He has helped me a lot and he is going to be helping me for quite a bit more time I suspect and getting nothing out of it. I need to stay firm in not interacting with my ex and process what has happened and work through it so I don't go through this again. Yes I will likely be seeing a counsellor at some point soon enough but I am tired out and GhostWriter is helping me enough at the moment and I have ordered books he recommended to me. Good luck with your situation and I hope you will find peace and healing as well.
     
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