Sensitive Penis and PE

Possible trigger warning. I talk about sex with my wife.

I need help. A huge motivation throughout Nofap was in hopes of helping cure my PE. I have heard several people on here that it helped them with it. Well it has been probably over 130 days without viewing P and about 120 days without MO. I did edge once and that’s why those days don’t reflect my current counter. My current counter is without viewing P or touching myself at all.

I am extremely sensitive down there. And I always have been. I can orgasm within a minute or less upon insertion. I have no control over my ejaculation. I don’t have trouble with erections, and it does feel very very good.

Anyone following me might know, and if not I’ll share, me and my wife were separated almost 5 months. I went a total of 101 days hardmode with no release at all. I have been back home 2 weeks now and I have O’d with her probably about 9 or 10 times. I have not had to even ask, she has initiated it all.

I cannot satisfy her with my penis, I finish too early. I usually resort to oral, which I enjoy giving her also. But I want to do more with my male member. What can I do other than using topical cremes, which I’m scared of... I have also tried some reverse kegals here and there. But not regularly.

I am too sensitive and have no control of holding in my orgasm. Help please. I want to be able to have sex for longer than a minute. I know P distorts our view of sex and it’s not normal to have sex for 30 minutes or a hour. But I would love to at least last 5-10 minutes.

We haven’t had a normal regular sex life in so long. Maybe in time if we can do it regularly at least twice a week or so, maybe it will start to help me and get better.

On a side note too I have had some slight discomfort in the tip of my penis also when we finish. It doesn’t hurt during sex, or while ejaculating, but minutes after it starts getting a little sore, I don’t think every time though. I am pretty well endowed, and if I push too deep I hit her cervix wall, and I am wondering if that has anything to do with it. Sometimes I do push in too hard. The feeling usually goes away not too long after we finish. If it keeps up I will look into being checked out by a DR.

 

No tips on PE from anyone??

 

No I haven’t. But I am worried about using them. Like what if the effect didn’t wear off?

 

Hmm okay I might try to try one of those desensitizers soon.

 

Good advice for everything except for me touching myself. I do not trust myself currently to do that at all. And to be honest I don’t want to touch myself. I want that to be left for my wife.

Last time we had sex she was on top and I still couldn’t last very long unfortunately.

 

Sorry to hear that. I have no idea what that is like. But none the less, it still sucks either way.

 

That’s great to hear. What kind of herbs was it you took?
I take a high quality multivitamin, vitamin c, fish oil and drink apple cider vinegar every day. I sometimes take some liquid zinc, and I have taken a couple pills of something called “Zen” from amazon. It’s a stress and anxiety herbal mixture. Maybe I need to start taking them regularly again.

 

I do feel a lot of it is mental and stress and anxiety related. And in focusing a lot on whether or not she is enjoying herself and focusing on not ejaculating myself.

Today was one of the worst times ever. I orgasmed almost immediately upon insertion, what the heck? So incredibly frustrating. She was very nice about it and said what I do for her with my fingers and tongue is for her, and when we have actual sex that’s more for my benefit. But I want to be able to please her with my penis also.

We even did it twice and the second time was the same way. It wasn’t like this in the past. When I was PMO’ing we would have sex and I could last maybe a couple minutes, which I would love to do now, and then sometimes we would go for round 2 and I could last a lot longer. I have become too sensitive I feel like with nofap. I started thinking way too much into also and getting stressed and then started to loose my erection, which I used to also never have any trouble with.

I might need to get on some anxiety pills or something.

 

No no that’s fine! The science behind it is okay with me. I try to do a lot of research on healthy food and natural remedies, herbs and vitamins too