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getting stares but I dont care

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Selix, Jan 26, 2019.

  1. Selix

    Selix Fapstronaut

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    as mentioned I get alot of stares from females and males. I sometimes check my face with my phone camera but there is nothing there.

    problem ( is it even a problem?) is that I dont even care...

    did I became indifferent or do I just notice it more often than usual?

    what are your experiences?
     
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  2. Marik757

    Marik757 Fapstronaut

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    Dont be too self-consious about it. Everybody stares. Just nod and greet them. Carry on.
     
  3. Atlanticus

    Atlanticus Moderator Assistant
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    it's your mojo! you still got it! now just align the rest of your being (purpose, peace, confidence, kindness...) with your inner magnet!
    on the other hand, i recommend taking that interest and turning it into communication, which you'll initiate. make it light and "what's a stranger anyway but a friend you haven't met yet? and you'll be a social sensation in no time.
     
  4. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    Why are they staring ya think?
     
  5. Jackb97

    Jackb97 Fapstronaut

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    People only stare at me at night time. TBF though I do look a bit villainous with my winter clothes on.
     
  6. meatsandwich

    meatsandwich Fapstronaut

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    I think it really depends on the stuff as they can look at your clothing style which can be different from other people,
    I get mostly stares because of my physique as I be more massive than other people muscle wise.

    NoFap doesn't really make you attractive or that people admire you, the process trough which you go
    trough NoFap process as training or meditation that makes other people admire you and that you become stronger
    in your will and physically.

    Though I get mirin looks without winter clothes, otherwise people just see me as massive nerd/geek probably.
    At least I look so :D
     
  7. CH3RRY

    CH3RRY Fapstronaut
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    Both. You're more confident and energetic. It can be seen from your body language, eye contact and overall behavior. You're also more aware of your surroundings and aren't afraid to look around which makes you notice others more.
     

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