1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Helpp guys these wet dreams are ruining my life. I cant take this anymore . PLEASEE H

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by irock, Feb 16, 2015.

  1. irock

    irock Fapstronaut

    51
    13
    8
    Hi guys , this is my like 10 th attempt to nofap and I have gone as up as 40 days but all my reasons for relapse are freaking WD. Earlier they were not a problem as they were infrequent . But this time these wet dreams are very frequent and regular

    My previous streak was 12 days why??? Because of 2nd wet dream in 12 days. Now this time its 7 days and i already had 2 wet dreams.


    Guys im not only afraid of chaser effects that these wet dream cause but also of the anxiety , awkwardness and socially dumb these wd makes me. I mean seriously one day i pick on everyone , everyone is so freaking afraid of me and suddenly after wet dream i become the same sucker who never talks and behave awkward. A guy suggested to sleep with no boxers to avoid it , but it seems that wet dreams are more frequent with no boxérs.


    I feel like giving in due to these wet dreams ,as i have enough will power which most guys lack but these wet dreams really fuck me up. You guys gotta help me . please tell me how to control these wet dreams . pleasse help.
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Underpants or no underpants makes no difference when it comes to wet dreams because it is an automatic process when you have excess semen to release. Consequently, there is very little you can do to "control" them. For two or three days afterwards you will probably feel a bit more horny, but the chaser effect is less strong than following a session of PMO. But just liken at any other time, relapsing is not inevitable. You cannot control wet dreams, but you can control your conscious thought processes and actions. So, put your focus into that - controlling your urges to masturbate and watch porn.
     
  3. Dorian Gray

    Dorian Gray Fapstronaut

    297
    61
    28
    maybe have a cold shower before bed? works for me, I am so occupied with warming up I fall asleep and no problems plague me during the night...but in the morning is a totally different story. just keep showering and working out..i do squats if i get an urge.
     
  4. Chris1052

    Chris1052 Fapstronaut

    195
    15
    18
    Uhm could you elaborate on this? You pick on everyone and they are afraid of you, is this a good thing?
     
  5. Dorian Gray

    Dorian Gray Fapstronaut

    297
    61
    28
    i think he means its ironic that he became the type of person he picks on.
     
  6. Mrl33

    Mrl33 Fapstronaut

    22
    6
    3
    Go see a healer and ask the person to close your aura, i know it sounds illogical but it helped me. Another thing is chakra meditation where you gradually move up your sexual energy in your body, thus it isnt stuck at your butt and genitals
     
  7. irock

    irock Fapstronaut

    51
    13
    8

    You interpreted wrong or may be its my inefficiency to explain things better. All i want to tell is that im a teen , I have friends and enemies. So when im on a roll , i can easily manage to laugh and play and do things with my friends and seems like i have some magical aura cuz everyone want to be around me. On the same time, my enemies are afraid of picking on me cuz they know i will not let them get away with that


    But wet dreams destroy everything. First , they feel like a complete reset. Secondly , chaser effects awaits the next morning for a warm welcome. Third, all the social skills gone . feels like no one want to talk with me , I try to talk to people by using world's worst and stupendious excuses.
    Earlier, when i felt alone , i'd be like "Whats up bro !! " and it will all start automatically


    Anyways , you know some tips about WD. Im good in controlling urges but wd fucks me up.ive heard some things about lucid dreaming what you say??
     
  8. Immor

    Immor Fapstronaut

    454
    132
    43
    You could try exercising hard, an hour before going to bed.
     
  9. irock

    irock Fapstronaut

    51
    13
    8
    Urges are not a problem for me. Because i keep myself busy in studies when im home alone. Yeah i will try cold shower before sleeping as ive never tried before .
    Thanks for the advice
     
  10. Dorian Gray

    Dorian Gray Fapstronaut

    297
    61
    28
  11. irock

    irock Fapstronaut

    51
    13
    8

    You know some guys told about lucid dreaming or master dreaming. Do you know what that means cuz i have no idea what is it??
    I have heard it solves the problem of WDs
     
  12. Diesel74

    Diesel74 Fapstronaut

    203
    61
    28
    Sounds like you just need more protien! Rather than having your body ejecting unused hormones, it can be reabsorbed by the body, bound with protiens to build muscle.
     
  13. Immor

    Immor Fapstronaut

    454
    132
    43
    You don't need to eat protein to do nofap.
    I've eaten what is classically labeled protein twice on this streak, and have had little trouble staying with nofap.
     
  14. Diesel74

    Diesel74 Fapstronaut

    203
    61
    28
    With due respect Immor, your only 14 days into it. Im almost at 90 and have never had a WD.
     
  15. Immor

    Immor Fapstronaut

    454
    132
    43
    Which is why you shouldn't give advice on how to get rid of them.
    Unless you have another source i am unaware of.
     
  16. Diesel74

    Diesel74 Fapstronaut

    203
    61
    28
    The reason Ive never had one is because I know to avoid them. Eat fats and protiens.

    Now, your right, you do not need protien to do nofap, in fact their are plenty of monks that eat mostly rice. And in irocks case, being as young as he is, will likely still have the occasional WD even with a high protien diet, but it should cut the frequency back and thats what he wants.
     
  17. Immor

    Immor Fapstronaut

    454
    132
    43
    Maybe protein does help with nofap.
    But maybe it is because it ties up your energy with the digestion process and you never get the benefits of that energy. I would rather make better use of the energy. Exercise gets rid of anything too much.
     
  18. cae

    cae Fapstronaut

    52
    10
    8
    I'd like to know: How exactly do WD "fuck you up"? What exactly happens after you had a WD? After all, it's a natural thing. So too, your primary goal should not be to get rid of them, but not let them ruin your streak.
     
  19. Limeaid

    Limeaid Guest

    This. You need to have control of your thoughts after a WD because thats what's causing all the problems....your mind. Master your mind and stop telling yourself that WD are the problem. Your lack of control over your thoughts is the problem.
     
  20. Diesel74

    Diesel74 Fapstronaut

    203
    61
    28
    Yes, it has to do with protein bound and unbound testosterone. Protien bound T builds muscle, while unbound makes you horny, aggressive, and can lead to semenal leakage and WD.
     

Share This Page