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Not sure whats going on here

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by gainsrs, Feb 17, 2015.

  1. Feb 17, 2015 #1
    gainsrs

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    Hey everyone,so its been awhile since I've watched porn or anything related. So when im at a party with a girl, sometimes I feel that without thinking or staring at her feet as I have a foot fetish, erections wouldn't come as quick. Should I embrace my foot fetish in those situations or try my best to make myself hard to other parts of the woman.

    I've been thinking about conditioning myself with normal porn but afraid that would be considered peeking soooo what do you guys think????

    - Im 16 btw
     
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  2. Feb 17, 2015 #2
    LouMan

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    hey dude- i say embrace your foot fetish wholeheartedly. theres no point trying to get yourself excited by 'other' parts of a woman simply for the sake of it. it doesnt make sense - you either like something or you dont.

    HOWEVER the point is WHY you are trying to get an erection at a party anyway? ;) arent you there to have fun, chat with all the people and simply have a good time? leave the foot fetish for later that night

    PS fyi i love feet too
     
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  3. Feb 17, 2015 #3
    gainsrs

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    I guess you have a point, but still worried on it affecting my mind to only be turned on by the feitsh.
     
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  4. Feb 17, 2015 #4
    thedaring9

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    Hahas that made me laugh, I didn't think much of it until you point it out XD
    What kind of party is that? *squints suspiciously*

    Anyway, there isn't much wrong with having a foot fetish, in fact the foot sensation region is next to the penile/clitoral region in our brains.
     
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  5. Feb 17, 2015 #5
    gainsrs

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    So i guess embracing is the only way to go as Its not like I can remove it
     
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  6. Feb 17, 2015 #6
    Monster Carrot

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    Porn should never be used for anything. It is use-less.
     
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  7. Feb 17, 2015 #7
    Justquit

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    Not sure I would embrace the fetish... What purpose does the foot fetish serve for your partner? Is that really healthy sexuality?
    When you get far in your recovery, you find that sex isn't about body parts. It's about being intimate with our parter and expressing our feelings with them. Obsessions with feet doesn't really fit in with that.
    Just my 2 cents. It was probably porn that encouraged that fetish too.
     
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  8. Feb 17, 2015 #8
    gainsrs

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    Well should I put my journey into hard mode? Until I reach that far into my reboot? Its hard not to hookup with some girls as im only 16.
     
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  9. Feb 17, 2015 #9
    Justquit

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    You have to determine what sobriety means to you. Is it not watching P? Is it not MO?
    I can almost guarantee you that the foot fetish will evolve to other fetishes if you continue watching porn. If you are truly addicted, you need more and different things to keep the excitement up. Basically the feet will get old to you and then it's something else.
     
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  10. Feb 17, 2015 #10
    gainsrs

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    I haven't watched porn for 30 days although my foot fetish still stands. If it gets old as you say, will it go onto something else always being some sort of fetish?
     
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  11. Feb 18, 2015 #11
    gainsrs

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    Also my fetish is considered as one of the root ones, where it's been here since birth
     
    gainsrs, Feb 18, 2015
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