Penis size

I thought I had a small dick because I was comparing myself to male porn stars. I was so insecure about it, I would warn the girls I dated about it before they see me with clothes off hahaha.

Well, most girls who have seen it liked it. They said it was the sweet spot size.

I don't think the average guy expects himself to date someone with a porn star body, and I don't think the average girl expects herself to do that either.

 

Learn this and graduate now: it takes a LOT more than a large penis to be a good lover. Educate yourself.

I don't care how many times this comes up, my answer is always the same: it's NOT the size that counts, it's how you use it. Honestly.

Not to say that size doesn't matter at all, BUT when you think about it - there are SO many ways to please your partner. Naturally, penetration is something we guys are preoccupied with, HOWEVER most women don't even orgasm from simple penetration.

As long as you take your time, get to know your partner's sexuality, and KNOW what you are doing in bed with them - penetration will merely be the icing on the proverbial cake. The final act of a long and satisfying epic.

By the time you get to any penetrating action, your partner will be so pleased and satisfied, they won't even notice how big or small you are. It will only be about you, and about the sensation. I don't think anyone will judge your penis size if you show them a good time.

Also - NEVER compare porn to real life. Porn is fake, life is real. Porn is directed and scripted, life is not. Porn is fantasy, life is reality.

tl;dr - Educate yourself on being a better lover, and watch all your doubts melt away.

 

I speak for all the women I have ever spoken to about this - we don't care. If she is letting your penis anywhere near her, it is likely she is attracted to you as a person, not a part.

 

Married lady:- as with most women who comment on a man's anxiety over the size of his penis, you completely miss the point. He expresses no anxiety about if women care. The point is, he cares! Are you suggesting that all women are comfortable with their breast size and symmetry or the dangly bits on their vulva? It seems obvious to me that some people will worry about how they look naked. Let's face it, women spend way more time 'altering' their natural appearance than men ever do. But then, when, a man expresses anxiety about his penis, they all say, without empathy, "it doesn't matter"!

 

I did misread - sorry. Insecurity is for all of us - maybe what I mean to say is that no one else will care as much as you do, and especially not a person who makes the choice to become intimate. Apologies if I offended..

 

I am not offended, we all misread things.

 

FreedomFlight:- I didn't realise that Bernie Ecclestone and Nicholas Sarkozy have very short penises. Who knew? LOL!

 

I know what you mean.. anytime I am watching a lot of porn it makes me feel insecure about my size. I know I am doing alright down there, but it doesn't matter, when you consume hours of porn, its going to change your thoughts. Porn makes men feel like they need to have a huge penis and dominate a women or they are not as manly as the guys you see on the screen. Every time I take a good break from porn, I notice after a few weeks I start to feel more secure with myself.. so thats what I'm getting at.. when you stop watching porn, you won't be being bombarded with images telling you that you aren't good enough, and those thoughts will start to go away.

Good luck!

 

I think women who react like that are more of an issue in "hookups" rather than in a committed relationship. If you're with someone you love/respect/like and the feeling is mutual, they would be a pretty terrible person to mock the other's possible insecurities when they're at their most vulnerable.

I may be old fashioned, but I echo a lot of others when I say that good sex is about communication and closeness... without those elements, it's just mutual masturbation, which can be pretty lousy for all involved.