GF doesn't believe in PIED

Yes she knows this site, at least I sent it to her when I joined here. Yes I did M, don´t see something wrong, doing it without porn. As my PIED was cured after some time. With phantasy. I discovered ejaculating not more than once in 10 days or so, I felt energized. Most of the last two years I didnt M longer. Sometimes a month. I read that in a book, depending on your age how much is good for different ages to ejaculate. When you are younger it can be more often. The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by Mantak Chia. Anyone men here experienced multi orgasms? I managed after I read it, was an incredible experience. Probably should exercise that again.

 

Thank you so much for your words. They mean a lot to me. You are completely right.

 

Do you want to cure the PIED temporarily? Forever? Think big: no more masturbation. If you intend on going back then you will not recover.[/QUOTE]
Yes I cured my PIED. I don´t believe in no more masturbation. As I once mentioned: use it or loose it. The problem is porn and what it does or did to you. Or to my GF.
After reading some books regarding PE, masturbation techniques help here a lot. It depends how to do it I would say

 

Hi Katrina, thank you for your opinion.

 

I completely agree. I also recovered we had once in a while good sex. But if I don´t fuck her as she imagines it should be, she would fuck my brain. I would dream of a kind of sex that is more creative. I say there are 1000 ways to do it. She would say there is only 1 way. On this topic we definitely don´t agree. As we also don´t agree regarding money. I heard money and sex is very much connected.

My plan is definitely no porn, also staying away from M and O for some time. Relax, do yoga and weight lifting. Drink more tea, have walks, be creative with music, read more books, less smartphone, meet friends, less social media. I enjoy reading this book at the moment: David Deida "The way of the superior man". I enjoy that me and my GF don´t have a lot of contact at the moment, we live very distant the last two months. I am surprised: when I come home, that I am happy she is not here, which means no stress and peace. That is a strong sign I would guess. Strong sign that something is wrong. What stressed me: Christmas: haven´t made a decision, but will be probably with my family and not with her, as well as new year. That will be a big thing for her, not to spend that together. But I don´t care about such drama anymore.

 

I tried hard to keep this relationship, but I lost all hope. The thing that killed the last hope was actually told like a joke: "If we could be friends without benefits"
I was so deeply hurt.
And some days later I saw her on the street, she didn´t saw me. I turned and escaped. That was for me the clear sign: if you don´t want to see your partner on the street, then there is no hope.

I will move out from the flat find a new one, start a new life. Thank you all for your support. This community is really worth gold.