PMO trains you to accept you don't have a right and don't get to breed (HE DOES)

Sex is fundamentally not about pleasure but about reproduction, about breeding and passing your genes. The pleasure is a mechanism designed to motivate you to breed.

Now what does seeing another male fcking a female (which is basically what most men watch) tells you? Aside from being a cuckold, having the perspective of a cuckold and doing exactly what a cuckold does (masturbating)? It tells you YOU DON'T GET TO BREED, HE DOES

You get told this again and again, each time you watch such a scene. You are being "put back in your place". You get to watch your failure, like those cats do when they lose a fight and see the victor breed the cat in heat.

Masturbating and ejaculating to it is just the next step in your conditioning and it's basically accepting that you don't get to breed. You voluntarily spill your seed, showing that you're not a threat to the other guy's chance of passing on his own genes. You accept your defeat. And because of the pleasure of the orgasm, you condition yourself to prefer defeat. To prefer failure. To accept your low social rank.

Guys, i'm telling you, this is it. This is what drives this whole thing.

Stop the conditioning.

Fight for your right to breed.

 

I used to think exactly like you... that i can just ignore the male actor. And that i have self respect and confidence. The thing is you want it to be the case but the reality is that it's not. You're just watching another man fck the woman you are attracted to and would want to fck.

When i first started watching porn (almost 20 years ago) i was completely disgusted seeing the man, the penis, the act itself and ejaculation. I would intentionally skip the frames showing close-ups/ejaculation and i would ejaculate in another room (bathroom), away from the computer. Over time i just became desensitized to it.

It's just impossible NOT to see the male actor, that's like saying you're looking at two people dancing or wrestling or boxing and just ignore one person. Most porn has close shots of penises/intercourse/ejaculation so it simply can't be done.

I recently wrote another topic on how many erect penises we saw and how that's completely abnormal https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...not-yours-this-is-completely-abnormal.215782/

 

I don't know how much of it is intentional, i think it's more like unforseen consequences that people and pornmakers began to adapt to and provide more content. For example, a lot of cuckold stuff is amateur, and just recently porn companies began to mass produce it bla__ed etc)

Yes, cuckold/hotwife stuff skyrocketed but i think it skyrocketed because 1st gen porn consumers just needed to bring porn in their actual life cause that's how they learned to perceive sex (by watching).

This is a good point, there is a lot of femdom/joi type of stuff now, much much more than in the past. And basically of women leading men (step mom seducing son etc).

I can see how this fits in with what i said in OP... basically femdom also trains you to be weak/low status and not reproduce. The whole point of JOI is to make you "spill your seed" . And femdom can't exist with dominant men, dominant men won't allow the woman to dominate them.

A man conditioned by porn to be weak and not reproduce will in turn seek and prefer a dominant woman so that he can continue being weak... which ultimately leads to cuckolding.

But definitely cuckold - hotwife - femdom - joi are all related. And they all lead you to not reproduce.