Help..Just a look or a voice is enough now to arouse me.

Not the exact same experience you are sharing, but i definitely get more easily aroused by the slightest thing while on nofap. I can get a raging boner justtalking with a woman in public. And i find that i get aroused by a wider spectrum of women than before - skinny, fat, young, old.

 

Dude, first... I am sorry to say... REALLY REALLY SORRY...











but you are creepy. I am not scared of you, but what will happen if people outside this forum found out about this? Don't worry, I ain't snitch lol.

Now, let's talk about the real deal. People fantasize because they have great minds. When you fantasize about sexual activities/woman in general, it means you are already deep in "porn addiction" hell or you simply have a huge sexual drive and your mind managed to create those scenarios in your head.

In case of porn addiction, you should realize that it is the consequence of NoFap itself that in certain weeks, you will have tremendous sexual drive. It is your fight, that only you can win it. I do relapse recently, but it does not mean I am going to stop NoFap. I will continue this fight, until I reach the golden 90 days victory! Try to ask others who managed to reach 90 or surpass it.

But if you do have huge sexual drive... If you do have GF/couple, you can focus on stopping the PM stuff since you can release it on your partner. But if you are single like me, I think it's better to focus your energy on something more important. Exercise for example. If you have this condition, it is highly likely that you have a lot of stamina. If you work daily and/or doing regular exercise, once you became tired due to the workload, usually you will no longer fantasize about sex stuffs and go straight to bed.

While working, you may find attractive or sexy girls around. Instead of thinking and stay silent about it (which results in you fantasize about that girl), you have to fight this urge by shouting (in your heart) or talking to yourself saying "STOP THIS". If it's not comfortable, make it as a joke 'Hahaha that boobs will never be mine' or 'Oh that ass reminds me of...' . Of course, these jokes alone can be considered sexist, so it's best to keep it to yourself and closed friends. Lots of my friends joke around sexual stuffs, the interesting part is they can keep themselves in control while in the proximity of those girls, compared to people that keep things within their head. You might think again about them when you are at home, but if you do work productively, you might as well get some cold shower and go to sleep ASAP.

I am sorry to say that what you did, although it is not uncommon, indeed it is scary things, especially for girls. I want you to know it. Yes, accept it that it is your current condition, but you should know that in the long run, it is not okay. I need to tell you this before someone that you respect/love say it directly to you that you are creepy. I was in your position (minus the heavy fantasies), and the girl that I love turned me down not only because there is no chemistry between us, she did say that I, for some reason, have a creepy aura around.

Find other tips around internet, it should help you more than this post of mine.

 

Sorry. I am really sorry. This is the first time I post after a long months of screwing myself. Today is the day I finally have the will to stop, and damn I feel that I become a saint by telling good stuffs to other people which is wrong (while just yesterday I act like an idiot and creepy myself). I believe that my future posts will be less judging and more understanding. I am truly sorry for it. I hope you will find a solution for your problem.

If you like, I can edit/delete that post, but I prefer if people can still see my stupidity and me being an asshole.