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20 day challenge [join me]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by bigboibez, Jan 16, 2019.

  1. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    Alright gents. Starting the clock 00:00 tonight. I'm gonna get to 90 days this time.

    Here is my plan of action:

    - Only use the PC first thing in the morning for studying, maximum 2 hours. This should be the only time I have to avoid urges.
    - Do Not peek or search for any pornographic content. This is what I believe caused me to relapse on my 35 day streak.
    - Only use my Playstation when I am playing with other people. This will prevent me getting bored and wandering off onto web browser. (If this proves too difficult, I will simply disconnect this instead)

    - To keep me occupied instead of binging technology and PMO:
    - Gym 5 days a week
    - Eat 3000 calories a day (this has been going well) for bulking
    - Read more (currently only started doing this just before bed- need to up the habit)
    - Learn some more pieces on the piano (basically gave this up for a few years now for no reason)
    - stay away from technology between 2-5pm (this is when i get triggered the most)
    - Get into some new shows I can watch on netflix downstairs

    As I have said in the past, I have a lot of free time at the moment, thus noFap is proving very difficult.

    I have just come off the back of a 35 day streak, but I fear I may have reset a lot of my progress thanks to today.

    I am really trying to improve myself right now. I've put some good streaks together but almost have gotten 'used' to relapsing and It's proving a very tough addiction to shake.

    Good luck to everyone on this challenge and still going.

    Tomorrow I shall fight forever to get rid of this demon.

    A
     
  2. 3 days to go to complete this challenge
     
  3. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    congrats man, keep it up
     
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  4. insulated

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  5. CyKage2652

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  6. BillTchmer

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    i tried for 9 days but fapped :(

    starting again
     
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  7. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    guys the urges are absolutely slaughtering me today... literally will not let up. somehow ive fought it this far and gonna keep going.
    I had partial morning wood today though so I think I haven't gone back to complete restart after my last relapse... keep going
     
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  8. insulated

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    4/20 here. I want to peek so badly but reasoning on why theres really no benefit to peeking. If i don't plan to masturbate why even look at anything provocative?
     
  9. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    same bro. . . Its so tough for me today
     
  10. bigboibez

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    Restarting now.._ ps4 been triggering me all day shits getting yeeted out my room
     
  11. insulated

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    Hey bro I'm restarting right now too, i started peeking and my mind said "might as well go all of the way". I hate this feeling! You and I seem to be on the same cycle. Lets just not binge. Chalk it up to a relapse and lets keep going. The more i dwell on it the more I'm going to want to binge.
     
  12. insulated

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    Tomorrows a new month, lets set out to keep the month of march as clean as possible. We can do this
     
  13. insulated

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    Would any of you like to start a book club and read books on porn addiction and discuss them? Even if you don't want to if you could recommend some good books!
     
  14. Iwilldefeat

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    Starting this today at 11.51am. Longest streak was 38 days only bcz of PIED infront of a lady horrified me. Since then been on a streak of 18 days and 11days. I usually get triggered by a thought and i instinctivley know i'm going to Masturbate. It's literally a Clicking motion in my my head. I simply don't know what to do to get past it, i'm fine throughout the day. These past few weeks I made it to day 6 but since then around 4 weeks ago i have only been able to string around 1-3 days. This is really crushing me bcz when I PMO I feel no pleasure and can stop halfway, but mentally I feel the need to finish it. My addiction really is in my head. I need advice on Habit change and something small at bitesize that i can actually implement and not something out of this world. I plan on putting my laptop away every evening, hopefull this works. Please guys i really need help, this is destorying me.
     
  15. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    yea again I didn't binge so had some morning wood lol... keeps my hopes up.
    But honestly my laptop and playstation just give me CONSTANT urges... its like constant war with myself. I got rid of that shit and now ill have a lot fewer urges. lets go free march lad. I would recommend removing whatever gives you urges.
     
  16. Day 20 Challenge Complete, now trying to reach day 30
     
  17. I think I finally hit my flatline because I haven't had any libido or urges for the past two days.
     

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