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20 day challenge [join me]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by bigboibez, Jan 16, 2019.

  1. 20/20 challenge beat. Thanks
     
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  2. HaydenK95

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  3. bigboibez

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    Amazing work man, keep it going. How hard did you find it ?
     
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  4. There were like 3 very difficult days. Two days ago was one of them. But, I got through all of them.
     
  5. bigboibez

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    Lads i relapsed again. This is a pattern for me now.
    I think its because ultimately im fighting something i want, that i can get. I need a change of mindset. Fighting like this cannot go on any longer. Its just not working. I will still try to remain abstinent as possible but i simply need a change of mindset. Im gonna minimise my triggers and read some books. See if i can approach this from a different angle. At the end of day a constant fight for life simply wont work for me, as there will be days where im so down that i simply wont care.

    Everyone on their streaks, keep going. Youre motivating everyone more than you realise.
     
  6. Wuzzaap

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    Relapsing after a long streak is tough , ill be honest with u , in a scientific point of view . Is that u got exposed to the chemical ur brain has been asking for , for the past month . Now u trigerred ur brain when it has reached its peak withdrawal . But before when it reached the peak withdrawal it was somewhat around day 14 . But before , u fought it because u were in a long streak . Now its coming in day 1 . And what is happening is that u think that it is not worth it to fight a veeeery strong urge in day 1 . As when u reached ur 35 day streak , urges started at day 8 for example . So what u want is to start ur streak with easy first days .

    However , from experience , if the peak withdrawal symptoms came first days . Then the rest will be easy .

    Imagine after day 30 how things got easier . Now things will get easier after day 4 .
     
  7. DRPJav

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    Checking in. First challenge
     
  8. avi_rules

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    I have just completed my 20days challenge
    going on to do 90 days noFap
     
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  9. bigboibez

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    Congratulations man
     
  10. Harrynak

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    can we start a new one?

    i will join you man
     
  11. Iwilldefeat

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    Just here to say I have made it to day 4 in one Piece. Very tired though, need a good rest, Keep going guys, I know you can beat this.
     
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  12. BillTchmer

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    6/20

    staying strong this time
     
  13. BillTchmer

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    fully committed to beat 20 days challenge this time.
     
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    Hi all. I'm new in this forum and I want to join the challenge. First of all I'd like to apologize if my English sounds a little "strange" or unnatural but I'm not a native.

    Ever since I was 18 or so (now I'm 31) I've been addicted to pornography and it has taken me many hours of my life and has produced negative consequences in my day-to-day. I did a challenge time ago, a very big one. 4 years ago or so I was able to be 1 year and a few months free of porn and masturbation. But then I relapsed and I returned to the addiction. I haven't been as addicted as before but lately I feel I'm abusing it again, I do it several times a week and I'm fed up with this. I'm not a 15 years old any more.

    So I need to go step by step. I will really try to achieve this challenge. Reading you all will surely make it easier. Let's beat this shit!
     
  16. Terry McGinnis

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    Yes, reading and being reminded that we are not alone in this has got to help. I have been addicted to porn and masturbation for bout 13 years now and I haven't been able to keep away from it for more than 3 months in all this time. But I started the 20 day challenge yesterday, so this being my day 2.
    As the last fapstronaut said, "Let's beat this shit."
     
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2019
  17. DRPJav

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    Day 1 complete, had a few urges but staying strong.
     
  18. insulated

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    5/20! Let's goooo, keep it up boys
     
  19. Iwilldefeat

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    Made it to day 5 out of 20. Lets just keep going guys. We can really do this, believe in yourself and understand you can overcome this.
     
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  20. Iwilldefeat

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    I've been experiencing a spike in overall happiness especially in the past two days. It maybe in my head but it feels great. Hopefully I make it to day 6 without a scratch. Currently at the gym working out. Keep going guys you can beat this.
     

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