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The 2019 X90 Hard Mode High Accountability Elimination Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Deleted Account, Dec 31, 2018.

  1. Daniel1

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    Checking in day 2, no PMO

    Yeah, I've noticed of course. I think it's the very human tendency for motivation to fade as time passes, so of course the longer the challenge the fewer people will see it through until the end.

    I think one idea could be to break it into three distinct parts, 30 days each. So you create a new thread each 30 days over 3 months. That way people would (1) have the motivation of a shorter horizon - the finish line is closer, (2) have a clear window for a comeback, so if someone slipped towards the end of period one, they can feel like period 2 really is a fresh start, and (3) have the chance to win multiple times, so the competition factor would increase.

    Just some thoughts :)
     
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  2. Checking in. Good start today, I went to an early morning hot yoga class which was great. If I start my day doing something like that it really sets the tone for how I feel. It's because I'm getting out of my head and into a different state then my default waking up groggy and feeling not so happy (most times).

    Had some triggers last night which are floating around my brain today. Gonna stay focused and remember the big picture of 'a year from today what would I want today to look like' or even tomorrow, what would the best today look like.

    Have a great day everyone
     
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  3. yeah definitely shorter windows would keep focus. Thanks
     
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  4. Daniel1

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    Checking in day 4, no PMO
     
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  5. JustForTodayz

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    Hi all, I just returned from my trip which was amazing. I did relapse into PMO tough :( But I know where to find recovery and that's here so I will get on my feet again with the help of you all and will start over again.

    Day 1
     
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  6. GuillaumeDujardin

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    cannot believe it's been 9 days with PMO, and I'm feeling pretty good about the rest of days. This is my first attempt, I hope it can work out without any relapses. btw, I'm going to climb mountains with my family and spend there for the weekends, so I'm sure with them around I definitely won't relapse.
     
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  7. Awesome dude, great job!!!
     
  8. Hey great to have you back!!! You're on the road to recovery!!!
     
  9. Great job dude, keep it up!!!
     
  10. Checking in, doing ok. Had some moments yesterday where I was pushing the boundaries but then I remembered what I was supposed to be doing and got focused. Today, little risk when I'm alone at home later on but I'm probably going to a yoga class instead. I'm really into yoga lately and it's been nice.

    I do have to keep my eyes in check because some women are attractive. My mind is really into the focus on breathing and meditation aspects of it so it's not too much a problem.
     
  11. master3

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    Back to the game. The latest day have consisted of PMO and escorts(meet 2 escorts 2 days in a row). I keep doing what im doing to feel better or to atleast feel something, but when i PMO or meet escorts i just dig the hole deeper and feel even worse and therefore have to PMO or meet escorts to feel better. Its a never ending cycle.

    I havent done anything sexual since i left the escort yesterday. It made me sad seing her while i was dressing to leave. She looked like she didn’t want to be at that place in her life, i felt like we were two people lost in life, and i can’t believe how i am able to think its okay to buy another human being. I have done shit things in my life, i don’t seek sympathy but to own my mistakes and try to do better.
     
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  12. Hey man, welcome back. Dont be too hard on yourself, we are all doing the best we can. This is a journey and we let go of things when we are ready.
     
  13. JustForTodayz

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    Checking in for day 2, feeling better already! :)
     
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  14. lolman123

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    Day 9 No PMO Challenge, still going strong, been busy with university but keeping myself from scenarios where PMO is likely (Home alone for too long)
     
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  15. master3

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    Day 2 done. I try to spend the day at university instead of home, it works fine.
     
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  16. One day at a time as they say, great job, keep it going!
     
  17. Nice job keep it going !
     
  18. Awesome job today, keep it going !
     
  19. Checking in. Doing good today. I had a good talk with my gf this morning. We struggle with communication issues and she's driving steps to fix that. We talk a little about PMO because she wants to know but not details, just how I'm doing.

    This has always been a difficult area for us as it is for many couples. We're fighting thru the difficulties so that its not hard to talk about. That drives me to want to do better, to want to be stronger so that I can be better for myself, her and us.

    I'm doing good but have been lax at times. I want to tighten up and buckle down now so I can be better for myself, her and us. I want this year to be the year I ended this struggle!
     
  20. JustForTodayz

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    Its great to see the progress you made in 75 days, keep on going!
     
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