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I just relapsed because of sending nudes...

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by EternalDreams, Feb 19, 2019.

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  1. EternalDreams

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    Just when i was looking forward to being clean from fapping, i fucked it all up again. Me and this girl i’m friends with got all flirty and kinky so we ended up sending nudes. Not to mention i sent a video of me ejactulating. I’m so sick of being this way. Sending nudes and relapsing is awful. I’ve been dealing with this for awhile now. Honestly i’m thinking about throwing in the towel. There just isn’t any hope for me anymore. I feel so lost sometimes...
     

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  2. IGY

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    It seems you have been dealing with this for a while now, probably years. Yet you are thinking of throwing in the towel in your second post! :confused: I recommend you get involved in the community of people that have similar sexual histories and are determined to beat their addiction. It is very difficult to take on this challenge alone. So, get involved and join the team.
     
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  3. EternalDreams

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    Thank you
     
  4. Infrasapiens

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    Well, you should have known it could end this way considering what you were doing.
     
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  5. EternalDreams

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    Yeah you’re right ://
     
  6. Infrasapiens

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    Do not feel so bad. Feel happy that you have someone to flirt with, or someone to talk with at least. Just focus on not doing anything risky and you should be okay.
     
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  7. Tiger1

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    Don't give up on quitting!!! U want to beat this so you can live!
     
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  8. EternalDreams

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    Yeah she doesn’t know about it. I mostly keep it a secret from others except for people on here. But i’ll do my best to explain my situation to her.
     
  9. ReclaimedLife

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    The girls i am friends with would never send me nudes. Because i am friends with them. We arent lovers.
    You need to ask this girl out or cut her out of your life for the moment.

    What you have is a worse situation then those stupid instagram models are for the porn rebooters.
     
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  10. ImpureHuman

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    bro, Try hardmode, avoid everything that triggers you including this friend. The mind tricked you, that's why you ended up in sending nudes even without thinking. Develop a firewall for your mind.

    Thanks for sharing this, I will be ALONE for the 4 days from tomorrow, I have no Idea what will happen. Everything is under control after 3 weeks.. Let this help to remind me not to do anything stupid and go back to the prison I built for myself. Thinking about the firewall for myself.
     
    Last edited: Feb 23, 2019
  11. PhattyPatato

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    man i have been sexting with all kinds of women,all ages until it was more addicting than porn.I had a streak of 55 days because i relapsed while sexting not because of porn.It has affected my life so much that i cant settle down with a partner but i am always looking for something new,and i see girls as a trophy to get naked and then be done with it and more to the other.

    sexting is worst than porn bro,dont start it again it will ruin you.Also dont give up there is nothing wrong in you.Probably all of us would have relapsed if smn we know started sending us nudes.It was just a reset,forget it and move on.
     
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  12. Linda54

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    Lmost same case
     
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  13. Hi fellow cybersex fiend here. Just wanted to clarify how it all works with sexting.... My psychologist told me that when you log onto the chat sites or apps you look for a compatible partner similar to when you play gaming / slot / pokies machines. You find a machine (a match) and put in your money (send a message). You might strike up a conversation after putting in money (effort) until you find a match (having a small win).You start sexting and have to put more and more effort until you orgasm (jackpot). You are rewarded after an orgasm with the desire to repeat the process again. The lows that you suffer and time invested are similar to gambling addicts but when you add the masterbation element it makes it worse again.

    Stay away from chat
     
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  14. HE^MAN

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    Same happened with me...
    But i boycott it bcoz m not at all ready for sex now..first focus on myself then will take care of girl and other
     
  15. Harrynak

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    this is what i call the waterslide analogy

    you are standing at the top of a waterslide if you begin with NoFap

    when you are seeing a hot girl, nudes or even a tv show with hot girls, it is possible to slip on to the slide

    it is VERY VERY VERY hard to climb back up, you slide down fast and at the bottom of the slide is what you all could have guessed

    P M O

    so please, stay above the slide and dont slip up , getting back to the top is really hard, staying there isnt! you just hold your horses
     
  16. I feel like I can't lie but let's just all confess that there's a huge portion of us that's going to slip and fallback several, several times. It hurts most of all when you were almost there and you gave in. But you were close and what does that mean? That you can get even closer and closer...and closer! Don't beat yourself about it man. Don't give in. Love yourself and saddle up again!
     
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  17. Agree you only fail when you stop trying. A smoker rarely quits on the first attempt why should porn be any different.
     
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