Complusive sexual behavior - Addicted to prostitutes

Hi mate
How you doing ?
I never went to prostitutes so I can't really know how the addiction to them work. And give an internal advice.
But I have some perspectives about it.

First paying for sex is wrong. Sex is a relationship and connection between two human beings and not a merchandise. It's equal to pornography in seeing the woman as an object to satisfy yourself.
I think it is just masturbation but with a real body.

Now why would you go to them?
I will assume that if you had real sexual relationships in your life you wouldn't go after it.

First you probably have social anxiety and don't feel comfortable near woman and can't approach them.
Suggestion: work on yourself, eat healthy, study, exercise, meditate, small talk to all people( young, old, man ,woman , know, unknown).

Second start to read books about intimacy between couples. Read taoist, hinduist , tantric phylosofie about sex. How it is much more than an physical act. A deep emotional act.

Third go to therapy. It helps a lot to put your problems in the hand of a professional. He/she will present you a easier way through your problems and give you a mental map about it.

Fourth stay away from it as you would do a P reboot.

Five don't judge yourself, look for help, doing everything alone is much harder. Talk to Friends ( even though they can see no problem in it, my friends already wanted to Go to a Prostitution house but I denied we were in the car , I said them to stop and get off it and went walking home) , but you can have good friends that will help. Go to anonymous groups of recovery.

I hope as everyone here in this forum you evolve and get a better life for yourself. We are here above all to be better and happier. Never forget that.

 

Thanks for your words.