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32, P-Mode past year, Looking to go to PM or PMO

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Zoink, Mar 13, 2019.

  1. Zoink

    Zoink Fapstronaut

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    Been struggling with Sexual issues since I was a young kid. First started seeing porn in the 3rd grade and never really could stop. Tried to stop for years and always hated myself for failing. Finally got a handle on the Porn alone ( without NoFap ) over this past year and that was really nice & liberating. However I still suffer in other ways and I thought maybe going for a PM or PMO for a little while might help. I heard of NoFap in the past however I always figured what a bunch of loonies ( No offence ) however here I am seeing that it could help and make things better. I don't have specific challenges/time requirements in mind. Just mainly looking to make some permanent changes to my mental thought processes via abstaining from masturbation, porn, and objectification of women in general.

    I accept that my sexual issues have put a damper on my relationship ( 10+ years ) over the years and I want to correct those things moving forward. I know have I have made progress, however I know I have a long way to go.

    Looking forward to finding some like minded individuals on the same paths.
     
  2. fire.bird

    fire.bird Fapstronaut

    I am hoping to make this my No P year... I hope to be where you are now at the end of this year :). I still do masturbate but with the intention to not objectify women in my fantasies. Every other month I do normal No PMO. I don't want to kill/suppress my sexuality, my main goal is to shift it towards a more healthy direction that is not so obsessed with the female body and fetishes but is more about intimacy and love.

    Wishing you good luck with your goals
     
  3. Zoink

    Zoink Fapstronaut

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    Agreed same here. I don't wish to kill my sexuality just redirect it in a healthy direction. a No PMO month seems like it would be really hard. Even just a no PM seems like it would be hard. I felt like when I masturbate I may still push things in the direction of objectification and other things, which is why I am definitely going for a No masturbation.
     

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