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So it's come to this..

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Chomp29, Mar 19, 2019.

  1. Chomp29

    Chomp29 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys!

    Until a few days ago I hadn't the slightest idea what all the NoFap fuss was about, but a recent experience changed that.

    I'm 23 years old and throughout my adolescence and early adulthood I was pretty much a loser. Due to social anxiety and later on due to a drug addiction, I managed to avoid being in a single relationship my whole life. 1 year ago, I overcame my drug addiction, and as a result of the nature of my job, I have been able to overcome my social anxiety and am confident talking to people.

    About a week ago, I met a girl, got her number, and we went on a couple dates. The first one sucked, but the second one was amazing, and it lead to me taking her back to my room and us messing around.

    There was just one problem though... I couldn't get it up... It took almost an hour of embarrassment before I finally was able to achieve an erection. She's a very pretty girl, and I don't have any trouble when I watch pornography, so it dawned on me that my excessive consumption of porn has likely rewired my brain in an unhealthy way, much the same as my precious drug addiction had.

    I want to be able to have healthy sexual relationships, and an intimate connection with real people instead of my computer screen. So I joined this site in hopes of getting a fresh start. Sorry if this post is long, I just didn't know how else to say it.
     
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  2. Welcome to the community. Read, learn and start making your plan.
    You can do this.
     
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  3. adamdamn

    adamdamn Fapstronaut

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    Hey man,

    Well done on coming here, being so open and seeking support. I am in a very similar position having got out of a drug addiction and realising how porn has affected my performance and relationships. We can do this man. There's a much better world out there than getting stuck on certain sites!
     
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  4. Judas Johnson

    Judas Johnson Fapstronaut

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    Well done for working out the problem, and well done for joining.
    Good luck in your journey
     
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