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The Race to 90 - To the victor goes the title

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Jefe Rojo, Dec 21, 2018.

  1. awesome dude. I wish I can like this post. Like limit exceeded
     
  2. You guys really help me keep going most of the times, especially when i'm low.
     
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  3. second point really got me. I'm the master, I control them, they can't overpower me:emoji_fire:
     
  4. JR-62

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    YES, YOU WILL!

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    1. of all welcome back @Jefe Rojo you are still the most honourable. Setbacks happen but we can overcome this.
    This is exactly what a female friend of mine is experiencing right now, her boyfriend is sneaking out of bed to PMO and is unable to show any physical affection to her anymore, but doesn't see the problem.
    I'm super glad that i quit before is ruined everything good in my life.
    Everyone of us has weak days, but this is not the day to fail this is the day to rise! @T H A N O S the titan
     
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  6. Thanks @JR-62 . It’s true, not all is lost. I will rebuild. I will get back to 90 and will gladly accept the title of “Sir Jefe Rojo”. :)
     
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  7. Hey @Game4g , I’m back and I, too, relapsed yesterday. Back to day zero and I’ve been in hell the past 24 hours. I see you’re on day 4 so hopefully this means you’re on your way again. I’m just trying to make it back to 1 day again. Getting started again is a challenge. I swear that PMO monkey has rabies. I was on day 99 my friend. Almost made it to 100. I feel down in the dumps. How have you been feeling? I forget how long these feelings last for after a relapse. I hope to be able to start feeling better soon.
     
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  8. done bro. Not possible without your support
     
  9. JR-62

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    I need a Freaking LOVE button for this post, Because Like just won't cut it.
     
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    Ha ha I think we can both agree that this is bigger than a title. But I will call you "Sensei Jefe Rojo" for now because you now know the tools to get to 90 days and you have the experience of falling so it has made you humble and wise.
     
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    YES!!! That's what I am talking about. That is what this group is all about because there are going to be days when I am struggling and am going to post here and I will need you to pull me through.
     
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    Had a good 24hrs today and have been thinking. Before this group, I was relapsing regularly. I felt stuck in the Hell of what I wanted to be and who I was. By coming here and posting EVERY DAY, Lifting Others, and sharing my thoughts struggles and feelings. I have found that PMO had me locked in the dark unwilling to connect and afraid that I would be judged and disowned. But here I found those with my same story, here I found that the biggest thing holding me back was silence and fear. But as I have worked past those things I have found new courage to take on one day at a time. See you in the next 24hrs.
     
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  13. Game4g

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    Dude i am so glad you are back.. i was worried how we were gonna run this thing.. i am doing well.. sry hhavent been replying much.. i have been busy studying and all..
    But this group and you guys are the only thing pushing me from stayin away

    Honestly i dont even feel like looking at porn any more.. like i have no urges.. before i was so eager to peak and i had hard time keeping my self from not doing that.. this time around all that is gone... Hope it stays that way..

    All of us together lets put those porn days behind.. we only live once.. lets make our lives better and make a difference in this world.. we all are gifted.. just need to focus our energy on something that really matters

    Lets go guys i dont wanna see NO ONE RELAPSE.. lets all of us together make the biggest streak this site has seen.. each and every member of this group

    Lets go!!!
     
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  14. Game4g

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    Hey jefe i aam sorry this is too much to ask can we get a head count for the gorup
     
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    Thanks my man.. hope all is well..
     
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    No PMO - Day 7 / 90
    There were a few images/memories that flashed in my head, but got over them.

    @JR-62 "If you are tired go to bed. (Lack of sleep is always a big trigger and weak moment for me)"
    I totally agree with this. Most of the time when I give in to PMO, it's almost usually when I was sleep deprived.

    @T H A N O S the titan - I like your new name.
    If everything feels like a routine, try the Pomodoro technique especially when studying. Take a break now and then. Find some creative activity in between, like journalling or learning a new skill (e.g. a new language).

    @Jefe Rojo - It's not the end of the war. Just get back up, my friend. Remember to come back here often.
     
  17. You’re right, titles don’t really matter that much. It was more of a fun thing to work towards - just a challenge to keep us going - and I’m glad I got to 90 once and I’ll do it again. I wish that I didn’t have to fall to learn this next lesson but I learned it and I’m wiser for it. It was extremely humbling. I’m not beating myself up about it. I’m doing what you did, I’m learning from it and moving on.
     
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  18. This is what it’s all about. We are stronger when we do this together. We support each other every day, each day is a separate battle. We will all get to 90 together but we will get through today first, and then tomorrow. I’ve seen you grow a lot from being on here @JR-62 . You’re doing awesome. Keep going my friend, you’re getting stronger every day.
     
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  19. Yes, I’ll do it and post it this weekend.
     
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