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412 DAYS w/o PM DURING MY EARLY 20s

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Miss Winnie, Apr 2, 2019.

  1. Miss Winnie

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    I wake up every day consciously & subconsciously grateful that I don’t need to M, that I’m not a slave to my body and its old ways, because let’s be real, I used to do that every day, multiple times a day, for YEARS.

    And why not, right? It feels good. But precisely, why not...because
    • I couldn’t concentrate
    • The foundation of my previous relationship was weak (lust is a poor foundation/reason to stay together)
    • Wasted a lot of time
    • Wasn’t confident
    But now, I knowwww I’m strong, because it takes a lot to beat addiction. Guys/gals, keep fighting! Cuz it’s so worth it - we can get out of this &
    • Be confident
    • Have better relationships
    • Be more productive
    Sure, there are days where I pause to fantasize, but I try not to linger cuz I’m wasting time & I used to literally wrap my legs in blankets to not tempt myself w them open lmao but now I don’t need to & that’s for me, great progress.

    And I to reset so many times, and it was discouraging, but with accountability to yourself from others & encouraging others, you can do it! And once you do, why look back - you’re more than your addiction :)
     
  2. Rickyuzumaki

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    Congratulations and thank you for the inspiring post
     
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  4. johnrock

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    very well! I have not been healed yet, it has been difficult, but one day I will
     
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  5. Asgardian36

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    great post! thanks for posting!!!
     
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  6. PeterBE

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    Nice winnie, i just survived an urge on day 17.
     
  7. Inspiring. Thanks for showing it can be done. But i noticed you said no PM, so did you have a boyfriend during this time?
     
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  8. inspiring, I been wishing to be cured of pmo addiction for too long. Thanks for post
     
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  9. SuperiorMan95

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    Man that is absolutely incredible. I can't wait to be on your level. It is great to see someone who has crossed the 400 day mark. That's over a year already! Make us proud! :)
     
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  11. Miss Winnie

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    Yeah, I have a bf - we’ve been together almost 2.5 years now. But YES, I did go fulll hard mode (no PMO) for like 90 or 100+ days. I didn’t want to O before 90 days & wasn’t sure if I wanted to after since I learned I could live without that goodness. But I went w the flow & if it happened, it happened.

    I DONT O often still now because we’re both pretty busy, but it’s bittersweet - good cuz I dont feel the chaser effect too often. I’d say every some MONTHS :)
     
  12. Miss Winnie

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    Thanks for the support - I’m here to encourage you, too. Love the username #hiddenleaf #BELIEVEIT #nevergobackonyourword #thatsmyninjaway
     
  13. Miss Winnie

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    NEVER thought I’d be where I am today, but it’s possible. Believe me when I say, the ppl on here inspire me; it really helped me to commit this time around - I’m not the only one struggling w this

    You go, dude!
     
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  14. Miss Winnie

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    Fight the good fight. We may have to fight battles to win the war.

    You can do it; I believe in you. You deserve the freedom.
     
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  15. Miss Winnie

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    Heck yeah! That’s great!! The first few weeks are the hardest, but you’ll feel more bada$$ as you go
     
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    I had really bad urges then read this.
    Thank you, I can't give in
     
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  17. Thank you!
     
  18. That's a huge achievement right there, @Miss Winnie ! :)

    Thank you for being an inspiration for me and everybody here.

    I'm sure we all will be in that spot, one day, It's possible.
     
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  19. SuperiorMan95

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    Can't freaking wait to hit the 500+ day mark. Im planning on giving up PM for good!
     
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  20. PeterBE

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    what about orgasming?
     

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