Sex toys. Yeah or nah?

The point of nofap is to rewire the brain and break the addiction to dopamine as well as the porn addiction. Sex toys will just change your hand for a plastic object, but, will not change anything in your brain from where you are now. I say Nay.

 

Skip the toys, MOing without PIV is not the same!!! Find a women, it's not about Fing and Sex, it's about love and a relationship! That is what P has done, made love into a cheap F thing, it is not that, trust me!!! As you reboot (faithfully reboot) your desire will motivate you to find love, not just sex, it's about love not Fing.

 

Don't do it. It's not really any different than using your hand. Women are people, not objects. You'll need the intimacy of touch, kissing, talking, etc.

I could go on, but I'm sure everyone is on the same page against it!

 

I wouldn't do it. Besides you shouldn't be worried about lasting a long time right now, if you are worried about it then wait to have sex until your reboot is complete, but I would say just go out and get whatever your after and don't worry about impressing or not. Most important thing is rewiring your brain.
Practice kegels and try to disassociate touch with O.
I know most people wouldn't agree with me on this, but if you can touch and not MO, you will last longer simply because it weakens the association of O.
I'd say it may be a good idea later on for practice, but right now no.

 

Not worth it! Even when you do reach an O, you will continue to feel that empty feeling as if you were PMO'ing in your usual manner because you don't have anyone to share the afterglow with!

 

It's a no from me. Being honest this is an artificial sex aid, and our recovery is all about avoiding Anthony that isn't real in place of reality itself. Glad you shared. This is what this forum and support group is all about.

 

Wait to practice with a real woman. If she loves you, she'll understand if you blow your load a bit early the first couple times. But as you do it more and more you will learn how to last longer. If you want to do something now to practice, then just meditate, focusing on your breath. When you are having sex, this is a great way to last longer.

 

I agree with everyone, having sex with a women is the best way to learn to control yourself. After the first few times you can relax, get into the situation, and not be in a rush. It really is about her, pleasing her, not you. For you, it's a given. So stop making it about you and start to give and make it about her, all about her. Make love to her, don't have sex, make love. Once you relax and slow it down, PE will not be a problem!!!

 

I would not say that using sex toys is bad. It can be useful sometimes to let off some steam, but don't abuse it. There is no difference between using an artificial vagina and using your own hand. However, in the past, I was really curious about how does it feel like, so I have bought an artificial vagina from https://www.deliciasexshoponline.com.br/, and it was pretty nice. I really liked it, but you should understand that it's never going to replace a real woman. However, you can practice on it a little bit.