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Nofap-DON'T GIVE IT A SHOT!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Infinite spirit, Apr 8, 2019.

  1. Infinite spirit

    Infinite spirit Fapstronaut

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    The only mentality you should have on nofap is: I'm gonna do it..no more relapses...and that's the only fucking choice.
    I see people here starting their journey and they are like" I'm giving it a shot".."I hope I will succeed".."Let me see how it will go". Let me tell you.. You won't succeed . Because your mentality is not 100% seriousness and commitment . In the back of your mind you still think that pmo is an option..you still think fapping is good ..you still want to do it!!.
    As long as failure is an option ..you already failed . As long as relapsing is an option..you already relapsed .
    Don't "give it a shot". Commit and just FUCKING DO IT.
     
  2. SoberSquirrel

    SoberSquirrel Fapstronaut

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    Your damn right. When I stopped PMOING all together that's what the mentality I had and I did succeed. However, unfortunately, I got back in to Ping (without the M and O). I'm trying to completely stop watching P. I'm having less success because I don't feel I'm in it 100% :/
     
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  3. jazzman1

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    Couldn't have said it any better. One of my favorite quotes is by Eric Thomas " when you want to succeed as bad as you want to breath, then you will be successful."
     
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  4. VulpesInculta

    VulpesInculta Fapstronaut

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    Amen. I only relapsed when I learned that it was part of the "process". The only effective process is discipline and resolution of underlying issues.
     
  5. Aurora Chaser

    Aurora Chaser Fapstronaut

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    Freaking true words! I already promised myself to never ever do it again. NEVER EVER! Let’s fight this one together man!!
     
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  6. Nantz

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    At first I was like dang man ease up im trying. But then I think I kinda figured out what you mean. My mentality does need to change. Yes PMO is a strong habit that i have unfortunately let get a grasp on me but no more indecision deep inside my soul. PMO is something that it dont want to be apart of me. NONE WHATSOEVER. And as a man I need to not even let it be an option. Thanks and good luck everyone.
     
  7. path_finder

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    I use Nofap as a tool. i use IT to punish myself for my Anger and when Anger has left my Body I will fap around Like crazy again with my left and right hand simultaneously.
     
  8. path_finder

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    Are You basically saying that You are the Penis that PMO got a Grasp on so IT can fap to hyperpornographic material?
     
  9. Nantz

    Nantz Fapstronaut

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    No. Im saying that yes PMO has unfortunately become a problem in my life that is hard to overcome and that I need to have a better stronger mindset for overcoming it. Rather than saying "Maybe I can do this" I need "Im going to do this" like infinite spirit said.
     
  10. Excellent.
     
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  11. path_finder

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    I Just did Word Play, Kidding around
     

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