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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by jay2jay, Mar 5, 2015.

  1. Mar 5, 2015 #1
    jay2jay

    jay2jay Fapstronaut

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    No fapping, or pmo but now going to massae parlors and hookers wtf

    The urge was so bad to pmo the other day I went to a hooker.

    Im fucked up
     
    jay2jay, Mar 5, 2015
    jay2jay, Mar 5, 2015
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  2. Mar 6, 2015 #2
    M L

    M L Guest

    That's probably not a great strategy. Did you connect with her as a person, or did she just facilitate your orgasm(s)? The urges will come, but substituting one bad sexual habit for another will not help your reboot. Come up now with a plan for when you are next tempted, and stick to it! All the best..
     
    M L, Mar 6, 2015
    M L, Mar 6, 2015
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  3. Mar 6, 2015 #3
    Thanatos

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    Your not fucked up, I've been there before... best case scenario you spend your hard earned money and have sex with a fun hooker,but afterwards you feel like it was a waste of money.
    Worst case scenario you get a STD or the hookers ugly or try's to rip you off.
    Honestly I wouldn't go any further down the road of seeing prostitutes if I was you, because it can easily be addicting.
    It's also kind of sad if you think about it.
     
    Thanatos, Mar 6, 2015
    Thanatos, Mar 6, 2015
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  4. Mar 7, 2015 #4
    jay2jay

    jay2jay Fapstronaut

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    Guys, thanks. And I know this. They're all bad habits. The PMO is a bad habit which started since 12. The hookers i've had my share for the past few years. The odd thing is, I can and do get females, but I am even trying to refrain from casual sex and using females for my pleasure. I need to get myself sorted and healed internally, because thats where all the above stems from, something messed up deep down. I'm aware of this. Its the process of moving away from it that is the hardest. I know a substituting a hooker for PMO isn't a good idea, however, I SO badly didn't want to PMO that I justified this to get a release. The PMO addiction is the roughest to kick because it can be done so quickly, easily, and for free, and seemingly hurts no body, however it hurts me and i'm aware of this.

    Anyhow, thanks for the responses! I guess what is best here is I am in the process of kicking all this shit. Thats more than I can say about a week ago, where everything was just a free for all

    peace

    My goal here is No PMO. I definitely don't want to pick up another (worse) bad habit in this process, however,
     
    jay2jay, Mar 7, 2015
    jay2jay, Mar 7, 2015
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