Girls in yoga pants triggers porn use.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Shy_1990, Apr 2, 2019.

  1. Fallensoldier1

    Fallensoldier1 Fapstronaut

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    Very very well said. Men are wired to responses to visuals for sure.
     
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  2. First of all, if you are starting nofap at 19, you are blessed. Regardless of this post and thread, if you can kick pmo at this age, the world will be at your feet.

    Believe me, if I had the wisdom at 19 to explore something like nofap and kick Pmo, I’d be some unimaginably successful person beyond anyone’s wildest dreams. So, please, please, whatever else you do or don’t, hang in here and kick this habit for good, now, with your whole life ahead of you. Don’t wear this ball and chain for years like me.

    Secondly, thanks for your note of support and you have said many truthful things too, such as men being visual etc.

    But I will caution you to not go too far down the road of why can’t women dress more appropriately etc and their not caring for the plight of men.

    The truth is that it is our male weakness that makes us look. We cede our power to women when we succumb to the power of being deluded by the sight of the female form. So only we can fix this; it is our responsibility.

    My life so far has taught me that you cannot require or force anyone who is older than 5 years to do anything even if it is right and for the greater good , let alone a full grown woman or women (sometimes I doubt I can even get someone under five years to do something right!). We cannot and should not require women to dress in any way. I cannot *require*this of my own daughter, and she is a wonderfully wise person. But if I explain some things and I *request* it, she usually complies even if it takes an iteration to come around.
    One can try to appeal to women and request women but good luck with even that in today’s climate- a woman, a mother, did exactly that for clothing in church at Notre Dame (not in the street, see post in my journal , and she was so ass-whupped on national media and social media that no one in their right mind will try that again).

    Yes, women have this power. It is called Shakti in Hinduism. It has the power to captivate as in Mohini, but if a man withdraws his senses and practices yoga, he can become Shiva, the auspicious one, to whom Shakti is attracted and she will even be seemingly subservient to him.

    This power is attained through self control and not by controlling anyone else.
    My 2 c.
     
  3. N1[] @|_

    N1[] @|_ Fapstronaut

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    Thanks
    I'm giving it my all to quit this now itself

    And I understand about women
    There is literally nothing we can do but control ourselves.

    Anyway thanks alot for the advice and good luck in your journey too
     
  4. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    You know what is good? go clean and get girls clothed like that at your bed

    but if you keep watching f*cking porn, it will not happen by default

    Best of luck
     
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  5. ^this
     
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  6. i found that my PMO cycle was fed by ny depression about my wife's sexual unavailability. i decided to focus in keeping a positive mindset and just plain ignore the hole my attention and focus was making feel bigger. she follows my lead and has been doing much better lately.

    in reality the view of other women was making me depressed BECAUSE of my fixation about my wife. since i've targeted my depression directly, the women have dressed sexier the past 2 days, but I dont feel so tempted to PMO as i used to. i dont even feel tempted at all even though HOT DAMN these women.

    if the fuel for the PMO cycle can be starved i think the triggers can lose their efficacy
     
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