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Is Sex more enjoyable than Fapping?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Daxos, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. Daxos

    Daxos Fapstronaut

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    My brothers,

    This may sound totally ridiculous to most of you, but somehow this question is bothering me. Perhaps it is my porn brain trying to convince me to come back to porn. I am currently on 12 days clean.

    So my question is: Is Sex more enjoyable than Fapping?
    I would like to hear from rebooters who either got hook-ups or girlfriends once they partook on the great journey of NoFap. Make no mistake, I will never go back to fapping. I will only express my sexuality ever again with a real woman, but somehow my mind is panicking like it is going to lose the enjoyment it got out of fapping.

    I would love to hear your thoughts.
    Thank you for reading and responding if you will,

    Daxos
     
  2. ZenAF

    ZenAF Fapstronaut

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    My sex life improved in the way that I'm able to get aroused by my girlfriend rather than closing my eyes while fucking and thinking of porn images. Which is a major improvement, it makes the sex way more enjoyable and relaxed.

    On a more general note it's normal that your brain is afraid to let go of porn as a form of sexuality. For addicts porn makes up 70+% (I'm just throwing out a number) of their sexuality and the rest is normal real life sex. And so when you decide to remove such a big chunk of who you defined yourself to be sexually, you're naturally going to be afraid that there's not going to be anything left. But your brain is exaggerating and doesn't realize the potential that awaits it in the real sex world.
     
  3. With P I can get a bigger O but its totally draining and it just destroys me mentally for days. Plus a minute after that O I feel like sh!t.

    With girl my O so far might be smaller, but it feels 10x better. Its hard to describe.

    P just gets everything from me, maybe even unnaturally. With girl its more natural, less draining. And sometimes I had a great O with my ex.. really good.

    Bottom line is. I dont enjoy P orgasms no more. They feel bad. I just cum hard. I love Os with a girl. Its more mellow usually and feels natural and just good.
     
  4. Khufu

    Khufu Fapstronaut

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    i agree,
     
  5. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    Of course sex this better than jerking off.
     
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