Hey guys, what is your motivation?

To become the strongest

 

1. For God and going forward I want no sex before marriage.

I always wanted number 1 but other reasons are....

2. My view of women is not right, they aren't objects.

3. To stop my expectations that when I get married my wife will do all the stuff girls in Porno do. I even expected my past girlfriend to do the stuff I watched and she wouldn't. It caused me anger, never directed at her though, so I'd just get my fix from porn when I was alone.

4. To fix my brain that keeps looking for a fix with more and shameful porn. As years have gone by I am baffled why I was into that and realized under no circumstance should a woman be treated like that by guys or be expected do those perverted things.

5. To fix how I receive pleasure. I never use lotion, just dry rub after years of use. When I tried lotion or lube it takes me 3X as long to finish, I try hard to have an orgasm and it is so hard.

6. To take control back!!

 

My motivation has been God. I strongly believe that his son died on the cross for us, and sex is just something that's meant to be special. Porn is sin, and it just keeps me from, keeps of all from, being the good men that we can be. Just so tired of the anxiety that comes with it and the shame and depression of failure. I've gotten much better, but it needs to stop completely. It's ruining my life.

 

To one day have a balanced spirtitual lifestyle, and a meaningful relationship not based entirely off sex.

 

2) Social Anxiety

3) Lethargic/lazyness

4) Lack of sense of purpose in life
toke this ones from the first guy to reply, that's how lazy i am right now....

anyways... to add something else, i want more focus when i study or work, i want better performance when i do gym training, and i also want something that i felt once... that i could take real risks and don't feel afraid of failure or something, and of course to feel well rested

 

to defeat porn induced ED
to increase testosterone
to connect with women as people/spiritual beings
motivation to get laid if I want to bust instead of through the hand to pixels

 

These are great tips. I will use them

 

1. To give up porn for good
2. To feel more proud of myself
3. To motivate myself more.

 

feel like that too.

 

To get rid of my porn addiction. I just want to feel free and independent like everyone else.

 

mainly to focus on studying , I'm about to fail this year due to porn

 

1. To become a better, healthier person.
2. To become a better, healthier husband and father.
3. To be rid of a source of guilt and shame in my life.
4. To defeat PIED and resume a normal sex life with my wife.
5. To avoid giving another employer a reason to fire me.

 

I used to be in-love but the dumb bich hurt my feelings though it was a long time ago. I want a girlfriend, but I know I can have any chick I want so I'm just keeping a lookout for wife material, and I also dont want to let anybody down.

Dont get down bud I also want to love somebody, that's why i know Jesus is saving for me the perfect lady.

 

I want to emulate my Father & Grandfather in their achievements.

 

People consider you're handsome, you're a clever lad, you work out, love what you do, have hobbies, are creative, love to read/write/learn. All things that most people consider as enough things to become a great and confident man.

Delayed ejaculation is like a woodworm slowly eating your self worth like a wooden table.

Overcoming this would be my biggest accomplishment in life. If I did that, nothing would compare.