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If I edged yesterday, should I just MO today to get the tension out?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by dreamedm, Mar 12, 2015.

  1. dreamedm

    dreamedm Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, been a while since I've been here. Recently did Iboga (plant medicine) about a month ago for my severe (social?) anxiety disorder. I've been feeling great and symptom-free ever since.

    I'm more keen than ever to quit PMO, and I was hoping for some advice. Since I PM and edged 2 nights ago and also yesterday morning, I've been feeling lots of tension in body and, naturally, my mind is not giving me much peace either (was going on a 1.5 week streak without PMO and feeling great, but went outside yesterday and felt negative energy and thoughts and less confidence and inner strength), in that regard.

    So I'm wondering if it's better to just MO now, to get that tension out, which was the result of my edging. Or is it better to steer clear from PMO and eventually the tension that was caused by my PME will subside?
     
  2. theres no need to MO, it will subside. all the best
     
  3. dreamedm

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    Cheers, I really hope you're right! It's definitely become a harder battle for me since I've PME'd, but if the tension (mental and physical) will indeed subside, then I will keep fighting!
     
  4. The Eleven

    The Eleven Fapstronaut

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    No, it's not better to give in.
     
  5. dreamedm

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    Hope you're right! Does anyone have personal experience with this? Did you feel better off if/when you abstained from PMO for a while, upon PME, rather than upon PMO, before you abstained again for some time?
     
  6. dreamedm

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    It may be on the contrary, but PME generally will always lead to PMO, eventually. The tension and battle become far greater if I PME, which is now why I'm wondering if I should just PMO/MO to get it over with and start afresh, or if I should abstain and keep battling anyway.
     
  7. victoryisnear

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    I wouldn't give in. Bcz if you relapsed. It's going to be really hard to get back on your streak again. Plus, after PMO, you have to deal with the side effects. Which is not fun
     
  8. keep fighting. I told you it will subside. don't give in. theres no need to start again, absolutely not required at all. I am saying you from my personal experience. its not required
     
  9. Leone

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    Don't do it man! For me as I realised, social anxiety was caused because of PMO. For a long time I was wondering 'what is wrong with my attitude'? I was very confident with people before my addiction but it took me a long time to realise that my problem comes from PMO! Stop choosing the easy things in life because you will become weaker and weaker (I tell you this from experience). Make some tough decisions for your life from now on, take control in your life and be the master of your thoughts! You will heal very soon for sure...
     
  10. dreamedm

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    Absolutely true. Thanks for the encouragement! :D

    Enough said, thanks very much, once again! =D
     
  11. dreamedm

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    Totally agree and can relate very much.

    Thanks very much for the encouragement, I will try and do so (need to start looking for work/deciding on a career and get on with my life after having been healed with Iboga from the dreadful, insufferable mental "condition" I had for nearly 3 years).
     
  12. dreamedm

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    Great, thanks very much for the encouragement! :D I'm going to do my best to abstain from PMEO entirely.
     
  13. Musta

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    I had the same thing a couple of days ago ... and it just fade away the other day , I'm glad I didn't MO
     
  14. Rising_up

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    Do meditation...
    Continue your medicinal treatment but start to meditate and increase the meditation time minute by minute, your anxiety will decrease..
    I meditate for atleast an hour I wanna go now for 2hrs
    Stay informed & keep feeding info
    Understand why you always do what you do
    Develop a continuous learning habit
    Because people start think they need to learn/ explore more when they relapse and get back to day 0
    Do meditation
    There's greatness within you
    There is not a thing on this earth that you cannot do
    The limits of our success are the limits that we put on ourselves..
    All the best
     
  15. Seamonkey

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    Avoid it man. My first couple days in I kept getting rock hard thinking of my wife. I was so wound up I just wanted to get it over with. The thing is that's not you. Your addiction is telling you to just do it. "Just do it man, get it out of your system and we will be all done with it". All lies.

    You know what feels fantastic? Pushing through a few days and feeling the sense of triumph that you were in control. Nothing beats it.
     
  16. nofapjt

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    Dont listen to your brain. it will play with you mind in all type of ways, giving you reasons why you should PMO. Just dont listen to it. go outside, and dont go to your room unless it's to sleep
     
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