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Lost Interest in Everything ! Help

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Autopilot1987, May 7, 2019.

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  1. May 7, 2019 #1
    Autopilot1987

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    I am married, But my wife is another city for 30 Days, so we couldnot meet sooner then that. I was suffering from PIED and DE.

    I took Medicine for 2 Months for PIED and overcame DE with my determination.

    Now Its has been few Days I lost my Libido, Zero almost Zero Interest in anything, i wanted to work but i couldnt, I started Reading Nofap and reading it all day. My morning woods are coming back slowly. But i dont feel anything down there all the day.

    I even lost any kinda interest to watch Porn or to get laid with women. Or my wife.

    I am just reading posts here all the day. I am lost I cant do anything.

    I dont think i am normal anyway, please help me.

    One side of my brain says Everyone here won their Race and you lost your life. The other mind say you can do it you will also be successful to cure PIED. But i dont think any kinda response down there.

    Help me i am in severe mental condition. Give me your honest opinion.

    Thanks
     
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  2. May 7, 2019 #2
    Male38

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    which medicine for PIED?
     
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  3. May 7, 2019 #3
    JesusStrength

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  4. May 7, 2019 #4
    JesusStrength

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    That's where im at I have no fucking libido.. Why?????????????????????????
     
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  5. May 7, 2019 #5
    JesusStrength

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    Did you start without horniness or became less horny after?
     
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  6. May 7, 2019 #6
    Fenix Rising

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    Flatlining and anhedonia are part of recovery process. They come and go and can last up to 2 years. Nothing to worry about. Just embrace it.
     
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  7. May 7, 2019 #7
    JesusStrength

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    Two years??? Come on man I can't afford two years.
     
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  8. May 7, 2019 #8
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    It is what it is it's becoming the reality for people who were severe porn addicts.
     
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  9. May 7, 2019 #9
    Fenix Rising

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    Up to 2 years. It might take only few months, a year or two. No rule of thumb here. Google PAWS and you'll see what I'm talking about. It's common in any long lasting substance abuse or addictive compulsive behavior.
     
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  10. May 7, 2019 #10
    Freeddom_Taker

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    I used to think it wouldn't take months to recover. 9 months later in monkmode I'm still struggling with Paws.
     
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  11. May 7, 2019 #11
    JesusStrength

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    Are you guys even attempting to have sex?
     
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  12. May 7, 2019 #12
    Autopilot1987

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    It was Herbal Medicine known as kasturi.
    I became less horny within 3 days.

    Anyone ? Is this Flatline or what ? I dont know what is PAWS
     
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  13. May 7, 2019 #13
    Fenix Rising

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    After 60-120 days acute withdrawal symptoms subdue, but you can get post acute withdrawal symptoms (PAWS). It all depends on frequency and duration of compulsive addictive behavior. If you had daily binge long lasting/long term PMO sessions, PAWS will probably be more severe and longer lasting than of someone who did it less frequently/for shorter period as your dopamine receptors are more FU so your brain will need more time to stabilize dopamine levels at the baseline. This is what causes flatlining/cravings, extreme good/bad mood swings etc.
     
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  14. May 7, 2019 #14
    JesusStrength

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    Withing 3 days of no porn? Withing 3 days of starting nofap?
     
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  15. May 7, 2019 #15
    JesusStrength

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    I think us new guys do have a problem, but the guys that have been doing this for hell of a long time, have to attempt to have sex to get the real women libido back. You have to try to be sexual.. Its like some of you guys got used to fighting against your sexuality, fight your sexuality against porn, but don't fight your sexuality for real women.
     
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  16. May 7, 2019 #16
    Autopilot1987

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    Within 3 days of Nofap.
     
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  17. May 7, 2019 #17
    JesusStrength

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    So this happened like 60 days ago? And have you have attempted to have sex with your wife?
     
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  18. May 7, 2019 #18
    Autopilot1987

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    This happend to me after No M, I am on No M for 12 days and on No P for 60 Days.
    In between I tried to romance with my wife but it was So So i was having not that much interest in it. Though i got erections but i was not in mood to have sex.
    I am warning you donot take any kinda medicine because these will stop working after few days and then you cant imagine the level of depression. It will cause you panic and sucidal.

    I think you and I are on same page so we can support each other.

    For how many days you are rebooting? If not yet started i suggest you to say NO to PMO Right Now if you dont want to loose your relationship. Because i felt that. And its miserable.
     
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  19. May 7, 2019 #19
    JesusStrength

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    Def brother.. Me on and off a month and a half.
    Another Question? When you say Zero libido... Do you mean like you lost the feeling of horniness in your dick?
     
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  20. May 7, 2019 #20
    Autopilot1987

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    Zero Libido means I dont have any kinda motivation. Dont want to do anything Dont want to see any women Dont Feel Horniness. And Nothing Just Numb whole day Long.
    I am getting morning erections alternatively or after 3 4 days.
    But i dont feel anything down their whole day.
     
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