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Just had a wet dream for the FIRST time in my life

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SolaireofAstora, May 3, 2019.

  1. SolaireofAstora

    SolaireofAstora Fapstronaut

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    Hi. As you can see in my streak, im on 90 or more days without P and M. Had only 2 orgasm with girls during this time.

    Today, after 30 years , i just experienced my FIRST wet dream. I dont get why people get upset, as it felt AMAZING, it was a dream , but nevertheless i felt a powerful orgasm.
    I woke up with one hand on my d****, and was surprised to see that, thank god, just a little bit of semen leaked.
    I was sure i had made a disgusting mess on my sheet and clothes, as the orgasm was powerful during my dream.

    It is not a relapse, right?
     
  2. Inkazak

    Inkazak Fapstronaut

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    Nope not a relapse in my eyes. Nofap (at least for me) is about control and awareness -and not using porn. This happened when you were sleeping so it has nothing to do with willpower or control. I also don’t mind wet dreams.
     
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    It was about the sun, right? You cannot lie to me Solaire.
     
  4. Congrats!
    Now just be on guard for the chaser effect. Urges to fap can hit pretty hard after the good ol' nocturnal emissions.
     
  5. I never had this. When it happens I will know I was just full.. lol.
     
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  6. hardowner

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    So, there's still hope for me...
     
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  7. I have two words for you: *congratulations!* and *BEWARE*

    Congratulations
    on having had a new experience. Now you get to have the experience of how your body and mind feel in the days and weeks after your orgasmic event.

    And BEWARE that you may be at a very high risk of relapse during this time.

    I had a similar experience at 111 days without orgasm. I had a dream in which I had had a wet dream (but it was just a dream). While you had a "wet" dream with a partial emission, I had had a "dry" dream where I experienced orgasm with no emission. I felt downright euphoric the next day, as if I had just gotten laid the night before . . .

    A week later, I had another "dry" dream, but the orgasm wasn't as powerful. A week after that, I barely touched myself and had a massive emission.

    Personally, I would not call a wet dream, or a dry dream, or an involuntary emission a relapse. Or, at least, not not on their own. I chose to label my emission a relapse because for the two weeks following that orgasmic dream, I was compulsively engaging in edging, fantasy and porn. The catch is: the whole time I rationalised that I must be getting better with roughly 120 days clean, so I imagined that I was just exploring sexuality in a healthy way . . . right up until I blew my load :oops:

    Hopefully that helps. Short version: having that orgasm in your sleep can set you up for the same post-orgasmic neurochemical rollercoaster as having consciously relapsed with PMO.
     
  8. SolaireofAstora

    SolaireofAstora Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for all the replies.
     

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