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Libido won't come back !!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mark joe, Nov 26, 2016.

  1. Mark joe

    Mark joe Fapstronaut

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    Well on 2 different occasions I couldn't get fully aroused when I tried to have sex which never happened before so that's when I came across nofap and even when I watched porn I couldn't get fully aroused so that's how I knew that I just needed to stop watching porn
     
  2. outedskeleton

    outedskeleton Fapstronaut

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    This was before you started NoFap? Or, have there been other incidents after your reboot?
     
  3. Mark joe

    Mark joe Fapstronaut

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    This was before nofap I haven't tried any sexual encounters with girls since
     
  4. outedskeleton

    outedskeleton Fapstronaut

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    So, what exactly did you mean when you said your libido won't come back? Do you mean just interest in sex, in general? What I'm driving at is, if you've gone as long as you have with no PMO and you're not sexually active with someone, how do you know where your libido stands?
     
  5. Mark joe

    Mark joe Fapstronaut

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    It just feels like I'm in a constant flatline I mean it's not zero libido but I can't get full erection if I fantasised right now without touching I could get it up to probably 70% but that's it and I get morning erections but again it just like 70%
     
  6. outedskeleton

    outedskeleton Fapstronaut

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    A lot of guys can't achieve full erection without some form of physical stimulation. It's generally not something to be concerned about. Are you stressing about this because you're worried about what will happen when you do become sexually active again?
     
  7. je1398

    je1398 New Fapstronaut

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    Dude, you need to relax about it, I think you're just blocking it inside you. Believe me you have that energy inside you, I mean, evolutarily, think about it, men are fertile all the time, you can theorically be excited most of the time. I think you shouldn't worry and just do it, think about what excited you and maybe find new energies to make it exciting again. Don't be scared, women are mysterious and hard to get but they are worth it and sex is worth it. Just remember excitement comes from you, like you just need to imagine things and be excited about seeing women naked again, theorically you can do it whenever you want, ok. Just remember its a mindset.
     
  8. magic ib

    magic ib New Fapstronaut

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    guys i noticed some changes and would like to share:
    1- excellent improvement in night vision( that goes immediately back if you fap lasts for maybe 2 wks after fap)
    2- what was no longer stimulating like normal porn lately , becomes much more stimulating even if you feel flat line about real women right now
    ( i think i am in the zone between low libido and normal ,, it is like your brain needed 100x stimulus now working on 50x but natural stimulus 1-2x still not working)--- that your answer probably
    3- what can make you horny at morning doesn't work by the end of the day like your peak at morning
    4- i didnt get wet dreams at all until i quit looking at any porn sexy stimuli and when i did i got 2 wet dreams
    5- mood swing no longer happens plus some of the motivation to do social activities return it is like your brain was drained dry and now it started to work again
    6- reduced sleep hours( from 12 hr to 6-7 hrs) and headaches( esp. porn headaches)
     
  9. Younameit

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    welcome to the flatline bro, there's no libido in the flatline, just get used to it, it's like a dark period in your reboot, Gabe deem flatlined for 15 months
     
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  10. JesusStrength

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    You are blocking your own sexuality.. You need a real women in your life now.. You may have a certain amount of sexual anxiety.. The only way to fix it is to go have sex. Did you ever have sex before?
     
    Last edited: May 21, 2019

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