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I find porn boring these days, but still want to search it?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by skaterdrew, May 26, 2019.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    I usually find porn boring these days, but for some reason I still get a powerful urge to search it? t's almost like I want to like it? Why is this happening?
     
  2. Nanni

    Nanni Fapstronaut

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    That's exactly what happened to me! My expectation was disappointed, and I'm sure that it'll be always that clear. So just resist. It is only the beginning
     
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  3. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Normally called addiction, you want it even if you dont need it!

    It happen to me lots of times, had really hard urges, but then after the act, it wasnt that satisfactory.

    Peace
     
  4. g2stop

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    It is porn addiction. You just need to replace it with something more healthy and never go back to it.
     
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  5. JKnight

    JKnight Fapstronaut

    For myself, I found that porn, after some time, had nothing to do with sex or sexual gratification. Is was all about the fix. Porn started the process and masturbation finished it. Porn was merely a tool, it didn't matter if it was enjoyable.
     
  6. Veritech

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    You have become desensitized. You have a need to search for more perverse scenes to get you off now.

    Just like the alcoholic who needs to drink more to get his buzz.

    Keep it up and you will be into far more extreme porn; where not even a real live woman will be able to get you aroused.

    Stop with the porn and you can reclaim your sensitivity and your life.
     
  7. wheelgauge

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    This is what we call addiction... Just like any other drug. After watching porn for too long, your head gets screwed. Not to mention your social life, that gets damaged.

    Quit this as soon as you can and you'll be doing a big favor for yourself!
     
  8. Have you ever watched a porn video that doesn’t end with sex or the money face shot?

    The best p vid ever is as mundane and repetitive as all the others. There are weird genres but except for bdsm, all porn shows sex. There’s always a penis. Always boobs. Always oral before and penetration after. Blah blah blah. It’s so Predictable.

    Why wouldn’t you be bored ??

    Make fun of porn. It’s about being predictable and universally ppl know what will happen. Plus , it’s soooo stupid when they make non English actors speak English for the benefit of the American porn watcher. I mean how baddddd does it have to get before the user goes... hot damn this is stupid omg.

    lol.

    Porn is boring. Someone above said it perfectly it’s just a trick to get your to masturbate.
     
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  9. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    See if I am being completely honest with you, I don't usually ever watch what is properly categorised as porn content. Like I don't usually watch hardcore porn videos.

    The strange thing is the most thing that seems to turn me on is these streaming channels which are on the internet and also on tv, and it basically is these women models who're only in underwear bending over in front of the camera ext and people phone them. I don't usually ever phone them though. But the strange thing is it's as if I enjoy going on to search it thinking I wonder who is going to be on tonight ext, and flicking back and forth between all the different channels.

    Now this is very strange how these channels actually turn me on much more than even hardcore porn videos. I mean I guess you would call it vanilla porn, playboy, soft core basically. But the thing is these babe channels are basically the first thing I began masturbating to. I discovered them around the age of 11 on tv and masturbated to them for years before I even got a laptop at the age of 18, I am now 28. Now those channels are on the internet on streams, and I seem to be turned on by those channels more than anything else. Any time I am going to relapse it is those channels I search, not hardcore porn videos. I actually think if those channels ended I would find it much easier to quit all of this.
     
  10. Ahhhh you like soft porn. lol. I am fairly confident soft porn or porn subs are still triggers.

    When I was younger I used the Sunday lengerie section of the advertisements as porn... it’s same thing.
     
  11. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I know it's the same thing. I understand it is doing the exact same thing in my brain, and the seeking and searching it is the same behaviour.

    I just find it strange why it's always those channels I am eventually desperate to go back to and search again. Maybe it has something to do with the fact I began watching those channels so young?
     
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  12. Probably. I started with soft porn too so it makes sense to me. But some people stumble across magazines in the forest and that leaves them wanting more. Etc. It's shock theory.
     
  13. ultrafabber

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    You should think about what other emotions you had when you first started seeing them when you were young. If it was taboo for you or you did it and you were close to getting caught etc (basically you found it as forbidden), this would've added more arousal and wired you to *feel like* the content is very arousing, when in reality part of the arousal was generated by the anxiety of getting caught, doing something wrong etc
     
  14. Veritech

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    Well said.

    Would we watch the Avengers movie if we knew the ending? No.

    Yet porn has the same repetition and same ending over and over and over.

    Porn is boring.
     
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  15. yourhomieishere

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    Actually not gonna lie I would watch the Avengers movie if I knew the ending because I love the Avengers too much. (I watch them over and over again) XD But the Avengers movies are healthy and won't ruin your soul
     
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  16. I was the same. It got to a point where I was going through the motions. I'd get up in the morning and be like, "Well, I guess I better find some porn then. Hope I can find something good." It got to a point where I wasn't even turned on anymore really.
     
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  17. JedWiley

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    You are letting it happen, you could stop it too. You are better than that, its about mindset. You need to realize its trash, its posion, you are great, you are a giant being bossed by an ant. Realize YOU are making choices man.
     
  18. When you are hungry you crave food. Did you ever ask yourself why?
    You have a need and to satisfy it you want to act, your brain gives you options and at the top of the list you get porn.
    Watching pornography is linked to pleasure, and sensation of well-being. So typically you crave porn because you feel depressed, anxious, sad etc and porn use is way to cope.
    Just figure out what is it you trying to cope with and begin to cope in other ways.
     
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  19. majorfiddle23

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    Because its an addiction ?
     
  20. So following your logic - You do it because you have an addiction, and you have an addiction because you do it? Oh wait.....
     
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