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Hello from Malaysia

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by A183RT0, May 28, 2019.

  1. May 28, 2019 #1
    A183RT0

    A183RT0 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, there. i am 30 years old, never been in a relationship, still a virgin and had been fapping since 15. i think i got this addiction.. i wanna stop cuz each time i do this and after release out, i realize what am i doing?? i kinda lost right now. i do have a few friends but the time we hangout are rare cuz the town we live is an island and that island is getting boring and we feel like there is not many activities to do..
    sometimes i feel depressed when i saw a beautiful girl, i am afraid approach them cuz it will feels awkward to talk to a girl that did know you at all..
    i did talk to some girls that are from my friends.. one problem here is they are Muslim girls..The majority people in my town are Muslim and the Muslim here are very religious.. i am a Buddhist and i heard some Buddhist in my country had converted to Muslim in order to marry Muslim girl.. i kinda selfish here cuz i don't wanna change my religion.. i just really wish religion shouldn't exist at all..
    i did had a crush on a Muslim girl when i was 13 but i endure my feelings for this problem..
    i can't find any Buddist girl at all here and my sexual drive always giving me problems.. i just fap every-time while watching those videos when it rises till today.. i wanna stop this addiction and i need to focus on other things but my town don't have many activities to do..
    i surf the web and i found this site.. just registered today and that's how i end up here and typing this intro..
     
    A183RT0, May 28, 2019
    A183RT0, May 28, 2019
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  2. May 28, 2019 #2
    Martin9121991

    Martin9121991 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome A183RT0, It is so brave of you that you are searching for help with your addiction. Beating this addiction is hard and it is better if you don't have to do it alone! I hear your struggles with talking to and dating girls. I've had similar problems before I began with NoFap. Trust me when I say that all those things get better the longer you don't PMO (or release as you call it ;p). If you don't exhaust your sexual drive with porn your brain will automatically search for those stimuli in the real world, with real girls, and real feelings. So my advice would be to just focus on the task at hand. Don't PMO. You will see a remarkable difference in your contact with real woman within 14 days. Trust me :)
     
    Martin9121991, May 28, 2019
    Martin9121991, May 28, 2019
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  3. May 30, 2019 #3
    Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the community :) this will help you on your journey

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/if-youre-struggling.232140/

    Know that there are a thousands of books and videos and scientic research what is attractive to women, same as every men is attracted to women with looks 10/10 women is attracted to some other things (its much more then looks and body and what most people think) with that knowledge you will be able to get any girl you want, but nofap is a great first step
     
    Always be positive, May 30, 2019
    Always be positive, May 30, 2019
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