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Can you reboot as a virgin?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jun 2, 2019.

  1. Im at 8 months and porn still haunts my mind. Can you escape this shit without a sexual outlet.

    Its so weird because my brain, has registered "porn"="women" and this still hasn;t changed because i never had any experience with a real girl. Im basically a slave to porn still after so long.

    If i think of sex, instead of thinking of a gf or a fuck buddy, porn comes to my mind. Will this ever change? Is there a trick to it besided castration?

    I literally have to strive every single day, albeit less than before, to maintain my streak.
     
  2. eoptda

    eoptda Fapstronaut

    but youve been with a prostitute of a kind (your hand) your whole life already, and see, you are still alive n shit, jesus still gon love u and all no matter what, and just like you (and your hand) have feelings, so do prostitutes. if you cant get any girls who'd like you to make their days better, why dont take matters into own *hands* and try to make it better for girls who really do need help in their lives :)
     
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  3. hand is just a hand lol

    because it blows. thats not how sex is meant to be lol. like i said, i dont approave of prostitution
     
  4. Ant Man

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    I agree on your objection to prostitution. As for the previous reference about Jesus, He is clear in his word about sexual purity.
    Prostitution can surely not aid in the stance against PMO? What is porn otherwise than another form of prostitution. I cant see any true wisdon in going that route, nor can I imagine that it will lead to anykind of freedom.
    Stay strong and good on you for the commitment you have taken to rewire your brain and undo the damage. Take heart, your PMO "habbits" did not develop over a few feeds, nor will they be changed in a short time.
     
  5. I will fold him don't you worry
     
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  6. Ant Man

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    thanks? I'm not familiar with the expression "I will fold him", so not exactly sure what you mean.
     
  7. I will slap him
     
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  8. well, i already made out with a girl that wasnt attracted to me and it sucked so using a hooke rwould suck too and even more cause they are not as good looking
     
  9. eoptda

    eoptda Fapstronaut

    ??? XD

    i mean, that's the point, even though there are many attractive ones, there are unattractive ones too, which just might find you ''good enough'' too XD besides a lot of them are often experienced in *that* stuff so i think it can turn out to be great too :)
     
  10. No, you cannot become virgin by rebooting.
     
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  11. BigOne79

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    That is a tricky area there.. .Noah Church swear that you need a girl to reboot if you are virgin and had porn since puberty. I don't think running to screw someone while rebooting is the best thing for many guys because they want to lose they virginity. Your mind will clear up, depending on how addicted you are and your age but you have to make a good mental effort at it. Have you been peeking still at porn...?? Have you been fantasizing at all...??

    Honestly, I understand how you feel about prostitution and I felt the same way but in the end either you pay for it going out with the girl two to five time before you get it or you pay for it up front. Let's be honest about how all this works you know. You do have to worry about STD's and will have to use a condom but you can say the same for a lot of other girls out there that have random partners as well, and do it for no money however you would have to have great game and right place at the right time to be that lucky. I think after seven months myself if I was ready for sex again I wouldn't mind a prostitute. I have no anxiety or guilt over it I don't think anymore at this point.
     
  12. prostitutes?
     
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  13. nope

    thats how it works for unattractive men. mostm guys who get laid dont pay at all its jsut raw physcila attraction.ou do reaize women want sex as much as we do right?
     
  14. I have a question , you have a streak of 258 days with all the benefits and superpowers you wasn't able to attract women and have sex?
     
  15. arkad1

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    Eoman attraction is just bullshit...
     
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  16. arkad1

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    Man, superpowers are bullshit, there is no woman attraction or anything like that...
     
  17. Straight women are only attracted to men. ;)
     
  18. arkad1

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    Wow, you got this joke in 1st grade? You're a cool kid...
     
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  19. Betterqueba

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    I don't have much experience with nofap,still a begginer.What I have learned about nofap is that it does not only entail abstaining from PMO.Its all about learning how to control your very powerful sexual energy.To direct towards more purposeful shit in your life,if u are a virgin or not.
    I recommend that you read a book about sexual transmutation.
    Also learn how to approach and pick up girls,do not wait for it to come by as a superpower.
    Having knowledge abt girls and ur sexual energy,will help you to decide on which path is better to take.
     
  20. women dont care about superpowers and shit. they just want tall good looking guys
     
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