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Paradigm shift

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by MrBrive, Jun 6, 2019.

  1. MrBrive

    MrBrive Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I wanted to share something with all of you.

    So I am currently on day 44 of NoFap and I've been noticing lately that simply by not viewing porn, I am changing a paradigm.

    Before I did NoFap, when I saw a hot girl on the street, I'd get horny by looking at her. But lately when I look at a hot girl, I just correct myself without thinking. I just look straight in the eyes, or look at her clothes and think in myself: Wow, that looks so good on her. Like I see the person, and not an object. I'm super happy with this change of thought.

    I think avoiding sexual content overall helps a alot with this. I don't use social media anymore, so I don't see any models n stuff on insta. When I watch a series or a movie with a sex scene, I'll most likely just skip it. It just makes you horny less often.

    Just try to avoid sexual content, and correct yourself when looking at girls for example. It will become normal to correct yourself. I dunno. It helped me.

    So, hope this helps more fapstronauts. Good luck all!
     
  2. hitnmis

    hitnmis Fapstronaut

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    congratulations on your successes
     
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  3. over50

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    excellent advice, I have the same experience and struggle in sticking to what I know. Looking at hot images leads to looking at nude images leads to you know what. Avoiding the slippery slope is key
     
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  4. Thank you!
     
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  5. A big round of congratulations to you for experiencing this and sharing it ! :)
     
  6. MrBrive

    MrBrive Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Hitnmis, Over50 and John Oldman! Good luck on your streaks!
     
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  7. Thank you very much. Keep it up!
     
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  8. Bobske

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    Thanks for sharing. Good tip about the looking. Lately I started looking at men. Not because I've started liking men, not because I have ever ogled women or objectified them, but becaue I noticed that I notice women, and don't look at men.
    Trying to create that shift :) Keep it up
     
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