Pre cum

Hello gents ..... i recently had some fantasies ( naked women etc ) and experienced precum ( i didn't touch my penis .... did get an erection however ).


I have done nofap for close to 10 months now and it has been the best thing i have ever done ( i wish i never got into fapping ... it ruined almost 20 years of my life .... from 11 years old to 29 i was destroying myself )

Since my nofap journey i have passed 2 exams ( am studying accounting ) .... got fit ( lost 28 pounds in weight ) and all in all feel like when i was a kid ( hopeful )


However i get urges from time to time ..... i know celibacy is the most likely my path in life ( Sex makes thing complicated ).

For men .... semen is the force that breeds creatively and drive to success.

However i just wanted to ask ... is precum a relapse or just a non factor in my journey ?

 

Yeah .... that's my problem .... i do watch some porn ..... haven't jerked my gerkin for 10 months .... but what good is that if the fantasies still has a hold on you , also ... isn't a relapse defined by actually having an orgasm ( cumming ) while in a conscious state ? ( etc fucking a woman or fapping to the point of orgasm ? )

 

Try to focus on your goals in life ..... try to have some introspection of yourself and where you are going in life ..... i was fapping from 11 years old and just quit when i was 29 years old .... it was a nightmare .... am 30 years old now ... so i lost alot of time wasting away ..... don't do the same my friend.

 

You'll do it bro ..... i was relapsing like crazy when i first started ..... i couldn't go a night without thinking about a woman ...