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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by escape_the_drug_, Jun 6, 2019.

  1. escape_the_drug_

    escape_the_drug_ Fapstronaut

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    guys ive been on nofap for almost six months now and i still cant get erections with a real girl im just really discouraged and depressed right now and dont know what to do
     
  2. Fenix Rising

    Fenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry, curing PIED takes time. I'd extend reboot to a year and visit urologist in a meanwhile to check if everything is physically OK down there. If you get solid morning woods everything should be physically fine. It's probably just your brain taking long time to rewire.
     
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  3. escape_the_drug_

    escape_the_drug_ Fapstronaut

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    but how much longer will it take
     
  4. NikNakZombieWhack

    NikNakZombieWhack Fapstronaut

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    That's not really something any of us can tell you. As stated above, see a urologist, and maybe even a therapist to try and work out any anxieties you might carry over this, as well as work out your depression.

    And on the positive side, it sounds to me like you haven't given up. You're frustrated, and that's normal. But don't let slow progress make you feel like you've made no progress at all. 6 months is a good, long time. Be proud of yourself, and keep striving to be better. Your action will come back eventually.

    Furthermore, none of this means you can't still be completely satisfying to a partner. Do more foreplay, edge them, tease them, use your mouth and hands instead, and maybe toys. PIV/O/A is all great, but believe in yourself enough to be able to satisfy someone with the other parts of your body.

    I believe in you, pal. Keep up the good work.
     
  5. Fenix Rising

    Fenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    "Be patient. Patience is the mother of all virtues." - Hrithik Roshan

     
  6. Iwillmakeit123

    Iwillmakeit123 Fapstronaut

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    Stay in there man. You will get through this!!
     
  7. Awedouble

    Awedouble Fapstronaut

    Did you have depression before though? It could be depressed caused by this or there may be depression from before, sometimes we don't even notice that because it is always there and it looks like it's normal - or there might be both PIED related depression as well as a general depression.
     

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