1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Getting Married in 6 months but...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Nathan Drake, Jun 12, 2019.

  1. Nathan Drake

    Nathan Drake New Fapstronaut

    4
    2
    3
    I think I am a PMO addict and have masturbated weekly for 5 years and then 4-5 times a week for 7 years now. I have a very weak erection and been with a girl, although I did get an erection but wasn't able to maintain and it kept going soft also couldn't succeed with entering a girl because it kept going soft. Now I am getting married in 6 months and I want to become a normal person with being able to maintain good erection and have sex.

    I am little sad and don't know what to do. Can someone tell me what should I do and if it is recoverable? If yes, what things should I do from now?
     
  2. Jonny1992

    Jonny1992 Fapstronaut

    753
    5,873
    123
    Yes it is recoverable.
    Cut off your posibillity to watch porn.
    And do sports, run if you have an urge and use the energy for sports.

    Eat healty. Don’t do drugs. And keep in mind, many women won’t marry a guy, who is addicted for porn, cause you will give her the feeling, she is not good enough.
     
  3. Nathan Drake

    Nathan Drake New Fapstronaut

    4
    2
    3
    How long to recovery and how to avoid not masturbating when I get horny?
     
  4. Jonny1992

    Jonny1992 Fapstronaut

    753
    5,873
    123
  5. Naranja Mecánica

    Naranja Mecánica Fapstronaut

    42
    54
    18
    Probably 1 to 3 months of complete abstinence, but some people take longer. And regarding how to do it well... the answer is as hard and as simple as: just don't do it.

    I know it is hard, but it is also possible. And do everything possible to keep the temptations away. Use porn blocking apps and software. Get accountability partners that will push you to do your best, not just feel sorry for you. I would recommend an accountability partner in real life, someone who cares about you being better. Someone you have to look in the eyes everytime you fail and tell them "I know I promised not to do it, I know I made a commitment to myself and to you but yesterday I didn't care and just did it anyways". Keep a journal to keep a record of your behaviour and then go back to it when you fail to analyse it and plan how to avoid the next failure. Be careful with your thoughts, respect women inside your mind. Remember they are people, they are someone's daughter and maybe someone's sister or mother. When you get a bad thought just drive it out of your mind as fast as possible and think about something else. Be careful with non-porn content that can get you horny. Instagram is the best example, but even movies, TV, Facebook posts, etc. Stop watching, stop following, stop listening to things that would make you horny. I don't know if you are religious but if so... pray.

    This are just a bunch of tips that have helped me a lot. But as I said it all comes down to "just don't do it". You can watch my relapse posts. I write one for everytime I fail and analyse what went wrong to improve the next streak. It's been hard but I've had good improvements.
     
    alp100 likes this.

Share This Page