Sex with a Hot MILF, couldnt get it up!

This is a very suspect comparison. Everyone here knows that men will fuck just about any woman they find moderately attractive, and many of them will fuck women they're not even attracted to. When a guy refers to a woman as a MILF, he's not saying, "wow, what an intelligent, dynamic person." He's looking at the shape of her body, period. She has been reduced to a sexual object.

You seem like a smart guy, Orlando, but this is an incredible amount of rhetorical acrobatics to defend a defenseless term.

It's totally inappropriate to compare men vs. women in these kinds of issues. For instance, I can say emphatically that the term MILF is juvenile. But if a woman had some acronym about me that meant "I want to f*** him", I'd take it as a huge compliment. Men are just wired that way, generally.

 

Look, I know you're cranky because you really miss orgasms, but taking it out on random guys online is juvenile as well as making a mountain out of a molehill with the term milf. Especially since your aforementioned d-bags have the ability to give you exactly what you miss, white knights not so much.

 

Uh, this argument has gone so off the rails that members of a forum dedicated to abstaining from porn, masturbation, and even sex are actually using a lack of orgasm as a retort. There's a good amount of irony in that, even if it is true that a lot of people get cranky when they aren't getting their fix of dopamine...

 

ive been in similar situation with this hot nice italian girl,model worthy it wasnt a relationship type thing but that night i just couldnt get it up i got a bit anxiety, i started panicking, she was asking whats the matter,an i asked my self that question over an over days after that incident, i got addicted to internet porn at age 18 or 19 before that it was the hustler magazines or actual movies on the tv,i get really aroused watching ladies walk by in public but maybe thats the problem only if it was watching an not physical intimacy that i wired my brain to act in such a manner but im giving this NoFap a serious go rewire my brain to a normal level

 

This white knight thinks you shouldn't be so rude to a PA SO on this forum. We're the losers who can't stop ourselves from staring at a screen endlessly pumping away while our lives pass us by...There's nothing alpha about that bro. She's got every right to make fun of us.

 

There's no "us", I'm not addicted to porn at all and I don't have a problem avoiding it. Bel knows my personal story.

 

I apologize... It's in your counter there. You never look at porn and are just trying to stop MO?

I still think the PA SO's ought to be given a wide berth here, all things considered. Your comment was in pretty poor taste. I guess I don't really get the whole talking up your alphaness on an anonymous forum thing.

I'm not sure anyone's impressed.

 

Noone here's objecting to them getting together at all. Personally, I've always been very intergenerational in my tastes. It's just the term MILF (and, I assume, its male corollary DILF) that's being questioned -- and with good reason, to my mind. IMO, BEL is on point when she speaks up as a woman and calls the term part of a rather twisted and exploitative P world mindset.

 

I think we have enough "off" behavior to work on without being extra PC on terminology.

The flow of communication here RELIES on easy to grasp (no pun intended!) terminology so we can understand each other readily.

It's easier to use houndish terminology to describe houndish behavior.

We shouldn't have to walk on eggshells with lingo here.

Bros before PC terminology! Nome sayn?

IMHO.

 

Lol! what's OBD stand for?

 

I humbly disagree.
The acronym was created by pornographers to dehumanize people.
I'm in a fight against all things pornographic in nature.
This acronym is used to describe someone's mother and daughter for sexual exploitation.
I'm not walking on eggshells... I'm fighting a war against porn!

 

OK but dad's I associate with use it to describe hot looking moms.

I know it more in that way than as a category on a porn site index

It might even be in the Oxford English dictionary by now...

 

Old Dirty Bastard in most cases from the reference to a band member of the WuTang Clan....I listen to everything maybe only I equate it as such.
My attitude is not from lack of anything, and I'm not speaking from attitude. Sex does not and will not ever rule me. I'm speaking from being subjected to a litany of absolutely asinine remarks by guys who apparently in their alternate reality think I adore their juvenile behaivor. Add to that I've asked women, some of you all might try that , and I've yet to have one say she liked and or wanted to be called a milf or a cougar or wth ever else springs forth.
I will take a White Knight over the latter anyday. They usually pack a higher IQ in most cases.

Dude it all ties in!
Sit down big revelation coming for some of you: women just want to be seen for who they are as individuals with their own uniqueness, not lumped into some blantantly overt sexual connotation.
I have a name use it. I have attributes that lo and behold don't all tie back to my sexuality, acknowledge them. This is my stance and more women than not have the same one regardless of how porn wants to warp it.

 

Yeah, keep telling yourself you'd be happy with a white knight. lol, probably a chance(albeit a slim one) that you might believe it one day.

 

Actually the term M.I.L.F was created by writers of the American pie movie. The actor Karl Penn who first used the term. And second who gives shit.